In the first event, I can't really understand what happened because its not detailed enough and there are blanks you need to cover for us to understand.
For instance, what had happened at the end of that day 2? how much time did you wait to call her after the day 2 and how many times?
This case looks like a classic cat string theory but you should elaborate more on this in order to tell what really went wrong.
In the second event, its a definitely Buyer's Remorse case. I'm not sure if you are familiar with this term because you're new so I'll quote from The Mystery Method:
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Buyer's remorse occurs when a person purchases something on a whim, only to regret the purchase later. Similarly, a woman who is attracted to you may be pushed, or on her own, go too far too soon. While in the moment she may indulge in her attraction and sexual arousal only to regret her feelings or actions later.
She probably don't want to meet with you again because she knows that everytime she'll see you it means getting into business.