Ok, so I was going to a new years party and this girl who is a friend of mine was there. I think she's pretty cool and would like to take things to the next level but i'm still fuzzy on the indicators i recieved. To avoid names, I'll simply call her girl A. First off, when I called a mutual friend to ask whe we were meeting before we went ice skating, we'll call her girl B. So I call girl B and girl A answers her phone and I ask my questions blah blah blah. She asks me to pick up another mutual friend who goes to college with her. We'll call him J. So i go pick up J and we go to the party and as soon as I walk in the door she was asking me to try some cake thing she made and asked me about ice skating. I told her I probably wouldn't because the skates wouldn't fit. (I wear a size 14 and they never have skates that are big enough) to which she replies, "Aw, I was telling everyone they needed to come watch you skate. I was selling tickets." When we got to the ice rink she asked me to take a few pictures of her and some of the other people there, but never asked me to be in one. (confusing point number 1). Then as we were driving back (we took her car) we dropped off J to get his car and I was in the back with my buddy and his girl. She stopped the car and said she wasn't going anywhere til someone got up front. Obviously it was going to be me that moved. There were a few other instances that could have been IOI's like she laughed at some jokes I made and stuff but I'm still not real sure. She seems to talk to some of her other guy friends more but they all go to thee same college as her and I'm assuming that's why but I just don't know if I got IOI's or something else. What do you guys think? Suggestions?

It seems like you haven't shown a lot of intent towards the girl, you have to show that you like her. Have you tried to talk to her when shes alone and use some cocky/funny stuff to create some attraction? Try to use some kino escalation also.

Confusing point number 1 is a total Friend Zone move. Trust me I know because it used to get pulled on me. You have to somehow get out of the picture taking.

"Do I look like your photographer?"

I normally use something like that.

Good luck!

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Haha yea point #1 is total friendzone bs, and Mayhem brought up a good way of getting out of it.

As for the car move, yea I would have acted much sooner on that one; if there's a space open up front, ALWAYS sit up front.

Did you have any alone time with her? ie did you drop your friends off and sit up front with just her?


I would honestly show more interest in her, as she IOI'd you at the start with the ice skating stuff and then at the end in the car.