Hey guys, thanks in advance for any replies.

I met this girl at work. She was a customer. We had a lot of time to talk to one another. We liked a lot of the same movies and share the same humor.

As she was leaving i joked that i would come to HER work.
She agreed straight away and joked that she would give me a discount.

So i left it a week and then went into her work (Coffee shop).
She noticed me straight away and waved.
When she served me, i just asked "what was good" and ordered it.

I then joked as she handed the drink to me "if it isn't good, im SO not coming back".

She introduced me to her workmate and boss saying...."this is the guy who helped me with........(doesn't really matter)"

I joked "i probably shouldn't have.......but how can you resist" then i pointed to her and laughed, as if to say she is great looking.

Then i said bye and walked out.

She came running out of the shop and yelled my name, which i am surprised she remembered, and told me i forgot the top to my cup.
I said thanks and then walked off.

Problem is:
Before i arrived i had the intention of asking her out straight away.

I pussied out. My reasons in my head were that she probably already had a boyfriend and i didn't want to get shot down. As she was quite good looking.

I also planned to have a little more time to go up to another employee and ask in advance if she was seeing someone.


Now im thinking i should go in there next week and ask her out.......

OR

I should leave it a couple of weeks then go do it.
Don't seem too desperate.

I think there is at least some 'slight' attraction there, otherwise i wouldn't be asking.

Any advice?

(i tried posting this at another PUA forum, but i didn't get very many responses. As the site was quite slow moving, with not many members. Hoping for more help)

No time like the present man, no need to wait and make her wonder too much. Get back in there and ask her out! Worst thing she can say is No. That's not too bad is it? I mean you are going in without a date the worst thing that happens is you leave without a date. Nothing to loose!

Given the way she's acting around you'd I'd be very suprised if she doesn't say YES.

BEST OF LUCK!

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i agree with jsmooth
i think you should just go and ask her out, just straight away next week. talking to an employee might now help as much as you think, and it would look alot better if you took the intuitive to just ask her and not worry about what they out come will be. honestly, best thing to do mate

mR.e

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dont even think just do it!