So i have a slight issue involving a girl i want back, go figure.

I figure sometimes just acting on a whim can reap some really great rewards, so a few months back i picked her up. (good story, but sort of pointless now)

After acting cold, egotistically and now regrettably, i missed the opportunity to pursue something with her, with the words of others reverberating in my mind that 'you can do better' etc. She wanted something more emotional, something i wanted, but didn't think i should show.

By this point, i got to know her on both a sexual and personal level, both of which i hadn't had such pleasure from before. Physically, a ballerina with a pair. Personally, a sensible bad girl.

After losing my chance, patching things up, then for her to say she 'wants to stop thinking about me' i realised i couldn't pick up anyone else because i'd fallen for this one (damn did i try). I've started working out 200% more, running even more, seeing friends, playing music and going out on up to 5 day benders only to wake up in the morning thinking about her, and how she'd once been there waiting.

Now it's almost Xmas, my birthday and NYE, and i'm being asked what i want to do by others. Call it sentimentality, call it stupid, but for starters the midnight kiss proposition which gets girls so giddy, i want to happen with her.

It seems obvious that i want her back, but my game has been seriously thrown, so i need some help with what i should do in this scenario, how i should approach her, whether i should approach her and what should i say. I suppose thats a huge ask, but i figure any help is good help, because i need get my mind off her.

Thanks guys

Dude just have a wack, trust me it's better than dealing with girls cos at least it feels good and you don't have to deal with all the bullshit.

The sooner you stop caring about her the better. Sure it is really really hard to do but you will have a much better christmas if you just stop thinking about her every morning you wake up.

What do you mean you're game has been thrown? You need to read over some material because the whole idea of the game is to get over your oneitis and go pick up another girl. Oneitis should be a thing of the past, once you get over it you'll be a much happier person.

I'm not sure what your question is anyway.

I think you should go talk to some other HB's and laugh about all the things that are wrong with this HB. For starters she is not with you because of whatever reason. If you let her go you can't just suddenly go back to her and expect that everything will be fine. Her inbuilt system will be thinking "what the fuck this guy liked me than ditched me, he didn't stick around before so why would he stick around this time.

I think you have all the answers and you should act on your own intincts because you know the whole story.