Lets just say I realize I came on a bit strong with this girl, her interest has seemed to decline. It takes her longer to respond to text, they are not as involved and fun, and she has not been over in like 2 weeks. To be honest, I miss the sex, it was really good.

When I text her Saturday I told her she should come over tonight and she said she would if she could if her sister came over and babysat her daughter. Then I never heard crap back ?? So I decided the hell with it and stopped texting her. I think pulling away is my only option but she still texts me.

She texts me sunday night, "hey" and I didn't respond.
Tonight she text me "how was your day" and I responded with a short to the point "ok, how was ur day" then she replied "pretty good"

Nothing to build a conversation on hear so I just stop. This is what I'm dealing with, many times a texting episode will begin and I will say pretty good stuff with actual thought put into saying something witty and then sometimes she will just end it there. No response!!

Should I just go dull with this girl and act like I'm losing interest, I do like her but obviously telling her so and saying nice things don't turn her head, it just pushes her away. She's still texting me but I need to withdraw and I'm not sure how to go about it.

Do I try to be funny still sometimes while we text her do I just stop answering her texts. I'm not sure really how just to turn the tables and make her chase me because I realize I am the chaser.

Sounds like you've been pushing her away for a bit, perhaps it's time to mix it up and pull her back in. Push-pull.

ok, but how do I start that from a uneven ground. I think I have been pulling for some time now and totally forgot to push. I'm in need of some quick fix advice to get her chasing me again. I can't do this with some line about how she has the second nicest ass I've seen tonight or something...this is gonna have to be like I disappear for a few days and don't text her. Does this sound right?

Go clubbing and take pictures. Post it in your facebook, I'm sure she'll check it out and realized what she missed. or realize that she's not all you got. she'll probably come back running to you.

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Hey guys this is a really interesting thread, i'd love some more opinions as i've recently been in a similar situation and now have her chasing me.

We actually stopped messaging each other for a couple of months (a messy situation i'll explain on another thread) which was painful becuase i was falling for this girl.

What did i do? Other than completely stop texting (along with her), i went on holiday for 3 weeks to a place i've always dreamed of going to and had a blast. Lots of photos with hot girls plastered all over facebook.

The day after i return, i get a text saying she's sent something of mine back in the post. I ignore the text until i get the package 2 days later. She had returned my screenplay and added in a painting she painted just for me along with a long letter.

Now we are seeing each other again (still fu**ed up though)!

Moral, i suppose just get on with your life and try and forget about her! If you do this in a genuine way, they always come running back. And now i am the one in control!

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Have you tried a phone call? Next time she texts, just say you're busy with (insert whatever) and that you'll TRY and giver her a call later when you're free.

I honestly would stop texting, as it sounds like she's maybe put off by something you are doing, and if you stopped responding to her little "hi" "whats up" things, put her on ice for a bit, and then gave her a call and had a meaningful chat..things MIGHT improve.