| Our society is designed to put people in certain roles and keep them in place. This keeps everyone from going nuts on eachother, and it also maintains the society we've had for thousands of years.
Everyone has a role. You look at the physically unattractive guy. He is supposed to walk through life never feeling good enough, never getting the women he wants or the life he wants. His while life is brought down socially because he isn't attractive. This applies to short, fat, etc.
You look at the guy who's good looking. He's not supposed to have a care in the world and he's supposed to walk through life having everything he wants.
When you meet these people you automatically assume what you're getting. Have you ever met a good looking guy with no self confidence? It's fucking weird. Have you ever met an unattractive guy who has confidence? It's mind blowing at times.
It's funny how society places certain roles upon us, and it's even more funny how people walk through life never understanding or realizing these invisible roles that are placed upon them. Years of social behavior by others mold you into what you become, and by will you let it happen. When you break out of that mold the limits are endless.
It's shocking. The other day I was at Ikea. I saw this guy, not attractive, huge belly, beard, with a hot ass wife. He had this glow in his eye that showed, "No one will fuck with me. I know what I want and I take what I want. Nothing holds me back." He had this look of determination that put a huge smile on my face.
People stay in their roles because they feel secure in them. It's the same reason people work 40 years at a dead end job (good pay, no growth or self pleasure, no benefiting the world) to live a secure life rather than struggling for a couple years to make it big. I think a lot of people forget that they are going to die one day.
We assume we are mortals, but we act like everything can kill us.
We become dependent on the false sense of security. If you feel secure, chances are you're stable and not growing. The world's going to be like this forever. If we had a planet full of men that took total control of their lives and used their own power within them to the fullest, then we would have a war every 2 days.
The good thing is that it's unrealistic. But what IS realistic is standing outside the pack, separating yourself. When you look at how secure the rest of the world is your vision changes. Everyone is afraid. The economy sucks, but there are still people making billions of dollars. How could this be true? Is it some hoax? No, it isn't.
I was at a shipping depot with my friend yesterday. He was shipping his bike. The guys that worked there were too shy to even talk. They were barely audible. They make little money, and will continue that trend until they make a change. Education is no excuse. There are plenty of people who are rich and successful without it. Tony Robbins dropped out of high school at age 17, and made over 30 million dollars last year.
I sometimes do an exercise with my guys. Next time you go to a bar pick out the ugliest, dorkiest guy. Imagine him, really imagine him not giving a fuck and going nuts. Imagine him doing whatever the fuck he wants, when he wants. Picture the results he's getting. Picture him rocking out. Picture him fucking models and 10's. He's worse off than you, what's holding you back if he can do it? You saw what he is capable of, do you see what you are capable of?
When you pictured him rocking out and pulling chicks, what were his actions like? You don't know what he's saying, but you see what he's doing. It's not intellectual, it's not a magic line. It's an attitude. It's a personality. It's what you are, you just haven't seen yourself in his shoes.
Rex _________________ www.TheRexStyle.com
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Reality is only what your mind tells you it is. Most of us spend our entire lifetime inside our little heads.
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