Thank you very much

Hey madals

For answering your first question, I start entrancing myself with her vibe!
I focus on feeling her DEEP inside of me!
I also do a LOT of sexual state projection. Lot's of strong EC and kino. I also make sure the kino is mutual!

For answering your second point.
I create sexual tension of the bat in clbus, doffe shops... were i feel i can do it!
Often during cold approaches!

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My question is probably one a the few that fall into the category of basic, yet go unasked because they are so rare.

Now to the point:

I live in Germany, but I am an American and speak so little German that it makes conversation almost impossible. The few English speaking girls that are here have already seen me as an AFC so no luck there.

So, what should I do to practice my game?

Simple, learn German.
Other than that you are limiting yourself massively, but luckily those English speaking girls aren't lost

What makes you think they view you as an AFC?

I realized after reading your response I asked the wrong question. To put my question in context I need to explain the entirety of the situation.

I am currently in High School and will graduate in a few months - six to be precise. Upon doing this I will be leaving Germany to return to my native United States.

The question I meant to ask:

Is it worth my time to learn enough German to have a conversation or at least open and DHV, or should I just focus in on other aspects of my game instead of spending that time learning a new language.

Now to your question:

The reason that they see me as an AFC is that like most of us have done at one point or another I let a girl use me and even asked her to. Mystery might say I was the perfect example of a Lovable looser. On whole, the story sounds like something you would hear DeAngelo describing as a what not to do example in one of his DVDs.

Hi there

I tried to approach today.. kinda.

There's this girl (HB8? 9?) who works at the pool hall that I go to a lot. i went in there at lunch break and it was pretty much empty. This is how it went:

bil : do you get hit on a lot working here?
HB: once in a while...why?
bil : I have a sister is offered a job at a bar. I am a little concerned.
HB: well here is different from a bar ... blabla (goes on about how they are different)
bil : OK I see (didn't known what to say)
HB: going on and on
bil : my name is Daniel BTW (shake hand)
HB: my name is XXX
bil : ai I gotta get to my practice now
didn't know what to say and decided to leave to maintain his value!!!

Later on I went to get a drink from her and some small talk at check out. She told me she's from a town next to this and has 2 other job and going to school at the same time. didn't known what to say and decided to leave to maintain his value LOL.

Questions:
1. what did I do wrong? I known I was suppose to neg her but I am too used to be a nice guy and was worried that I might hurt her or make her mad... How do I get over that?
2. Any suggestions about how to continue on after this? I know when does she work but she has to work when she is there although she's not very busy.
3. I am thinking about getting her to play pool with me(don't know how yet). But I am pretty damn good at shooting so it is probably no fun for her?

newbie. lots of question. hope you haven't fallen asleep yet

so i'll admit that this is a bit balsy but here it goes...... i am a 23 y/o afc w/ an extra challenge, i was born with a dissablity. my situation is quite mild and i am completely cogently capable with an above average IQ. in fact, the only way anyone would know i have issues is that i walk funny, w/ slightly bent knees and a noticeable limp.
i am having trouble battling the stigma with my situation and women seem quite surprised when i ask them out. i make friends no problem but they seemed shocked if i want something more.

my question is three fold:
1. do you think that this situation makes my goal impossible/ do pua tactics not apply because i walk funny?
2. how can i help women see past my situation and take me seriously?
3. do any of you know someone who has also faced challanges and has been successful with females?

keep in mind that i AM A NORMAL PERSON and am not looking for pity, so be completly honest whatever your response

So only just managing to get involved sexually with girls. I still haven't had sex because I want to find another girl who's been wiating (harder than i expected!) but I'm with this one girl at the moment and we were fooling around and I realised I had absolutely no idea what to do!!!
I've read about the clit and the G-spot and ABC techniques etc. I couldn't find the clit at all and when i did "ome here motions" on her G it didn't seem to do anything and she obviously seemed disappointed.
If you have any advice or any techniques you wouldn't mind sharing I'd really really appreciate it. I've come to realise more and more that I love being around women and for some reason I really want to give them amazing pleasure like they've never had from a guy before.
So I hope to hear from you soon if you've got time. I just hope that with help from guys like you and a bit of practise I can become much better!.
{eace bro

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This is something only you can answer, is 6 months an amount of time you can do without frequent sex? I say frequent because if you start hitting clubs (or house parties if you are underage) you will meet some English speaking girls at some point and as long as you have a rough idea of what to do, you'll get lucky (normally I don't count getting lucky as a close, but in your situation it is something you should consider).
As for other aspects of your game, if you think there are area's of yourself you can improve that don't include approaching every night then sure! Hell, if you think that learning the language isn't worth it, why not get some awesome experiences to talk about back in the USA? I am talking doing some exciting, interesting things that you can DHV about. Gaining an attractive lifestyle will attract people to you, being the guy that has seen the world, done all these exciting activities and been on all those adventures will be a huge DHV!

Right, as for the girls who view you as an AFC you have 2 options.
1) if you haven't had much contact in the last 3-6 months, start talking to them again as a whole new person who isn't an AFC.
2) if they are friends now, entourage time. Get them all together and go out with them. AFC Adam has loads of stuff on this, it really works. A guy walking into a club with even 5 hot girls with him WILL get all the right attention

1) you didn't close. It is that simply, you had the perfect opportunity to do so here:
All you had to add on to that sentence was something like "but you seem kinda cool, give me your number and we can go and investigate that bar to see if my concerns are justified"
Teach her to play As for how, just ask! Tell her you are going to play, then say she should come along![/quote]

Please dont post the same thing in all the "Ask" threads on the forum. Look at what I said in Zips thread.

Firstly, never be afraid to ask a woman what she likes. A simple "I want to know what makes you feel amazing" or similar goes miles. A woman would much rather a guy stops and asks for directions than just keeps driving aimlessly for 2 hours and she never gets where she wants to go

As for exact information on sex, I will not post it here as there are under 18's on this forum. However, with a bit of work from google you can find a LOT of information. If you cannot find anything on google, PM me and I will give you a link or two.

Madals

ive asked this girl out from work. she sais no, she doesnt want a relationship. she comes off as interested because we text each other and flirt like children nearly every day. i think what i am lacking is comfort with her. if i could get comfort buidling tips, or even specific advice, that would be excellent.

If I am dating a feminist, should I ease through her last minute resistance or will she say it was rape later when she backwards rationalizes that she didn't want it, even though she was screaming yes all night long as I brought her to numerous orgasms?

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Whoa jesus.... Madals has been holding the fort for a good while now

I'll give you a couple of tips for you to try out.

Ask questions which engage emotional responces.


Instead of, doing much tonight?

Try, "so, got anything fun planned for tonight?"

Or, your going for a jog, "How does that make you feel, when I jog I get a huge rush of freedom.."

Both these quesitons are getting her not to divulge facts, but feelings!

That is the important area for comfort, it is about feelings, the more you to discuss emotions, feelings and opinions the better!

"I'm cooking for my mum, I love my mum to bits XD"

That's alot better than, "I'm cooking for my mum"

Secondly, don't confuse flirting with bonding, just having some time to talk normally about normal stuff and opinions, taking some time discussing the small things to build a familiar vibe can work wonders.


Hope it helps