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I can see the idea behind this. It's like when mystery puts lipstick on his shirt. It's part of adding value through (perceived) preselection. If you already have numbers, or have been kissed, then it must be that you are high value enough to interact with women. What I would say is that, in general, focusing on phone numbers kind of misses the point. A number is only a way to get to a day 2, it's not an accomplishment in and of itself. Also it may look like bragging, like if she sees you going over to your friends and high fiving them and waving the paper with her number on it in their faces and laughing. It's maybe not as bad, but it's like, what kind of a guy is overtly displaying many numbers he's got tonight...what's he trying to prove...and to whom?
The whole idea with this is that you wake interest. Its like peacocking. You dont wear a big silly hat just because it makes you " cool " but because it wakes emotions and stands out from the group. Like you said mystery putting lipstick on his shirt but this is just more " radical " version. Other girls writing their numbers into your hand while the others watch is something that shows you in a new perspective. You have something "special" that makes those girls write their numbers into your hand instead of just typeing it onto your phone. It wakes up confusion and questions among attention. And if somebody asks why you have those numbers in your hand you can always reply: " i forgot my phone home but she insisted to write her number onto my arm so i wouldnt forget. Luckily she had a marker pen which she gave me afterwards " or " my friends tend to write their numbers on my hand incase i get really drunk and i lost my phone, long story "
There is a story behind the numbers, its not bragging, they just dont know it before they ask. And if you dont talk to the girls who wonder the numbers in your hand than its their lost. If you didnt talk to them than maybe they werent what you were after. You can always tell the story to the girls you are attracted to. Believe me, they eventually will ask if you are talking to them. This also gives a reason for a girl to come to talk to you. " Why do you have numbers in your hand? "
Answering to that " in general, focusing on phone numbers kind of misses the point. A number is only a way to get to a day 2, it's not an accomplishment in and of itself ". So what is your accomplishment? Nothing here says that you cant take it further than just asking her number. You can always k- close, F- close or call her the next day. One of the purpose in this was that it wakes her interest. Nothing says that you cant end the night with her like you want.
[ Johnny B ]