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Sup ppl. would just like some advice.
Excuse my modesty)Im one of the taller better looking guys but for some reason am no natural with girls and have had some drawbacks with regards to confidence.
Ive read quite a bit of pua material and gone through almost all of david d angelo's material. My theory is pretty rocksolid and i feel i go through stages of super confidence and then stages of nervous awkwardness with girls.
I cannot meet girls in clubs and bars but i feel alot more comfortable in the day ( im at university so campus life is more comfortable to me)
My confidence has improved alot over the past 2 years but im still nowhere near where id like to be. I have found that my cocky persona has often repelled girls during early meetings, should i be using normal conversatoin for x amount of time before teasing and messing around with girls ?? how can i use my looks more to my advantage ? my female friends tell me constnatly of how other girls rate me etc but strangely that has not effected my overall confidence with girls at all. im still to scared to open sets unless i got something really "non normal" and witty to say, which is rare. I feel my game is strong later in a meeting and i do well in situations where ive been introduced or have previously met a girl before, but to be fair without the beggining stages those later stages are pointless.
I often make eye contact and my body language is strong but i feel its unacceptable and sure failure to go and start up a normal boring ass every day conversation that the girl has heard 10 million times before.
Any advice for better looking guys who get alot of attention from girls eyes ?
some guidance in the right direction would be awesome.
To be honest it sounds like you need to build your confidence and inner game before worrying about anything else. It's good you have progressed some with the skills you learned in the books and things. You are going to really have to work on you and your lifestyle before you can get the results you desire. You are going to have to feel really love yourself before others do.
Forget what you know about Cocky Funny and other things. I'd focus on more natural game. There is a good wealth of information on this site on how to pull that off. Develop the qualities that naturally attract women, so that you feel more comfortable and don't have to memorize some method which makes you nervous that you are goofing up.
Jon
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