this is where i'm struggling. I want to treat them like i just want to bang them, but i know i cant just do that, but at the same time i dont want to treat them like a goddess b/c i'm sure that wouldnt work either. so if you could generalize it .. how should you treat them?

I've been watching The Mentalist lately and one thing I've learned from Patrick Jane is that women needs two thing: love and affection. You don't need to treat them like a goddess, some women hate that. Just give them what they deserve and you'll be on your way.

To generalize:

Treat them as if you are the owner of a really good strip bar. Or think of how Hugh Hefner would treat them. He would not be too impressed because his life is full of hot sexy women who want him. Same with a strip club owner. Both of these men live a life where women are around them 24/7 and so they don't treat women like goddesses because they can easily get any other woman.

Basically, I can't say how I act but here is what my body language and attitude are saying:

"yeah you're hot but that means very little to me, I see hot girls ALL THE TIME, I have girls in my 'friend zone' who are hotter than you. You will have to attract me by doing or saying something pretty interesting or intellectual, because beauty is pretty common..."

At the same time, let them know you love sex and are a sexual being...

Treat them like you would a dog.
reward good behaviour, punish bad behaviour. (giving or not giving attention, don't actaully hit them, common sense people)


This should keep the girl hooked to you till eternity.
Girls love the rush of emotions they have with a guy like that.

Of course you don't treat them like a dog...
Treat them as a regular person, that's what they are after all. I don't see the point in treating them otherwise, normal courtesy still counts.

- Exerio