Oki Ive met a HB9 on the beginning of the year we hang round for a month. Vacations ended she went back home, I expent some time there, 2 weeks, she came for 1 week here. And then we havent seen each other anymore. We kept in touch by msn and so on. I must admit I havent had any other girls since than (so it is about 4 months), well I was also working like 50 hours / week but this is not the point.

So she s comming to town in the first super excited about seeing me and I fleaked. I havent answered her mails and some text answers havent arrived there. I had a shitty week, crashed the car saturday, friend of mine died on sunday , today I visited a friend who is with leukemia. Plus I had my exams and finished the final assigments on my master. Yes I had no time and messed up bad. Now she is 6 days to come and upset with me. So I see it sadly cause I really like the girl. But is it also a break from the situation of having her far away, if it is over im 100% alone again.
What should/can I do?

Sounds to me like one of those situations when you can easily turn the disadvantage into advantage.

You are gonna meet her. Tell her about everything that happend to you and make her a cocktail of emotional bomb. Women love that kind of stuff and not only you can spark an explosion of emotions that will go on and on for weeks....you can also end up looking as a super strong guy who was able to handle it all and who came out on top....

Take her with you to see your friend with leukemia.....that will hit her hard.
It would hit ME hard...and i am a man.

This was the worst advice I ever had.

It is the worst written advice. But it's underlying plan is quite good.

You have a heck of a reason to flake on her. "i went through so much negativity lately, I didn't want to spoil the mood when i met you"


Should be enough.

Awesome advice! Now I know that at least one of you actually gets some.

A sick man makes a healthy man look damn good.

well honestly, if shes mad at you for flaking, tell her all the stuff that has happened. if she has a heart, she wont care about you flaking and wanna see u again. if shes a cold hearted bitch and doesnt care about your story, then u dont wanna be with her at all.

and if it ends up being 100% over. uhh go out and meet another HB9+

hope it turns out for the best

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