Dude, This girl has you firmly planted in the "tool" category... Do you know what a tool is? It's something you use when you need to get something done. When your done with the "tool" you put it away. Kinda like a screwdriver or hammer...

This is what you need to do.
Put this girl in your "Person I like to help category"
That's a good thing. It's good to help people.
It's good to have girls as friends...

Now when she contacts you for help, if it is convenient for you, do it.
You see if you put her in your "off limits file" You can simply be yourself. That is great practice. Because there is nothing a girl likes more then a guy who has confidence and is comfortable with who he is...

Everything else is a waste of time...

Next!

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Jessie
Phermax Pheromones

Dude, This girl has you firmly planted in the "tool" category... Do you know what a tool is? It's something you use when you need to get something done. When your done with the "tool" you put it away. Kinda like a screwdriver or hammer...

This is what you need to do.
Put this girl in your "Person I like to help category"
That's a good thing. It's good to help people.
It's good to have girls as friends...

Now when she contacts you for help, if it is convenient for you, do it.
You see if you put her in your "off limits file" You can simply be yourself. That is great practice. Because there is nothing a girl likes more then a guy who has confidence and is comfortable with who he is...

Everything else is a waste of time...

Next!

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Jessie
Phermax Pheromones

I must admit that talking about "tool" category.
Some months ago there is this Korean hottie at work, she is petit and quite a nice ass.

anyway, i asked her out before I got into PUA so I did a lot of AFC stuff and telegraphed too much interest. For a few weeks after she kinda treated me as if I had the rabies or something.

Anyway today, there was a party in a workmates house and she was going straight after work. She doesn't drive so she was looking for some chump to give her a lift.

I couldnt take her there but on the way back she was still needing a ride back. She was smiling and laughing at my jokes. But I knew it was just a means to an end. to basically get a free ride.

Women know how to be nice when they need to that is a fact.

Dude, This girl has you firmly planted in the "tool" category... Do you know what a tool is? It's something you use when you need to get something done. When your done with the "tool" you put it away. Kinda like a screwdriver or hammer...

This is what you need to do.
Put this girl in your "Person I like to help category"
That's a good thing. It's good to help people.
It's good to have girls as friends...

Now when she contacts you for help, if it is convenient for you, do it.
You see if you put her in your "off limits file" You can simply be yourself. That is great practice. Because there is nothing a girl likes more then a guy who has confidence and is comfortable with who he is...

Everything else is a waste of time...

Next!
________________

_________________
Jessie
Phermax Pheromones

Dude, This girl has you firmly planted in the "tool" category... Do you know what a tool is? It's something you use when you need to get something done. When your done with the "tool" you put it away. Kinda like a screwdriver or hammer...

This is what you need to do.
Put this girl in your "Person I like to help category"
That's a good thing. It's good to help people.
It's good to have girls as friends...

Now when she contacts you for help, if it is convenient for you, do it.
You see if you put her in your "off limits file" You can simply be yourself. That is great practice. Because there is nothing a girl likes more then a guy who has confidence and is comfortable with who he is...

Everything else is a waste of time...

Next!
________________

_________________
Jessie
Phermax Pheromones

Dude, This girl has you firmly planted in the "tool" category... Do you know what a tool is? It's something you use when you need to get something done. When your done with the "tool" you put it away. Kinda like a screwdriver or hammer...

This is what you need to do.
Put this girl in your "Person I like to help category"
That's a good thing. It's good to help people.
It's good to have girls as friends...

Now when she contacts you for help, if it is convenient for you, do it.
You see if you put her in your "off limits file" You can simply be yourself. That is great practice. Because there is nothing a girl likes more then a guy who has confidence and is comfortable with who he is...

Everything else is a waste of time...

Next!
________________

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Jessie
Phermax Pheromones

thank you for your answers....
well, since my last post here (on the 4th):
1. I finally e-mailed her (on the 5th) that I can only make one visit to her house this week, since I have other business scheduled...
2. since that she's sending me e-mails everyday (!!!!), at first saying how happy she is that we'll meet and that she's counting the days, and after that just to say good morning or good evening !!!!!! I haven't answered her.... Tomorrow I'm going to her house (and let's hope it's the last time)...
BTW she never mentioned FB again. Perhaps she's expecting me to invite her, but I have no intention of doing so.

OK.... here I am again....
just returned from her place....
I stayed cool all the time (3 hours) and even tried to spend more time on her hw than chatting....
that seemed to make her a bit nervous and she begun kino !!!!! she begun touching me, hugging me, holdind my hand as often as possible. I remained calmed and tried not to make it a big deal.
when I was preparing to leave she asked me if I could go to her place again the day after tomorrow just to check on her hw and I said yes but only for an hour since I already have other business to attend to....
she then reminded me that tomorrow is the last time we'll meet in class and asked me if we're going to stay in touch from now on (she said that she wants us to).... I just smiled (in a way that it ment NO) and left....
BTW she kept asking me how we should celebrate her final hw on Saturday, what we should do etc. I never answered to these questions...
after all I'm planning on saying goodbye to her when I'll go to her place next time.... (altough she's going to call me on Saturday to let me know if her professor liked her/my hw)

aight this be my first post. obviously mayne take sum action n stop playin this game, just go in and kiss the hb. stop playin the same ol routine ova n ova again gotta have sum balls once in a while in order to git what you want. If she accepts n invite that has nothin ta do with hw, try to move in on her and quit stallin cuz itsgoin on way too long.

OK... one more update ... hopefully the last

1. when I went to her house for the last time, her mother was there and therefore I wasn't able to make any moves... But we had a great time, and she was kinoing me all the time and laughing with any joke I said.... Anyway when I told her that I have to go she hugged me and thanked me over and over, BUT her mother came with water and screwed my chance....
2. today she was going to meet the professor, and as usual I texted her for good luck. after the meeting she called me and told me that she got a 9.7 for her hw, she was extremely happy and said that my message made her day because she was anxious and unhappy but when she read it she became a new better person. I told her that I had to keep it sort and she said that we must get together for a coffee.
3. an hour or so later I met her with her mom and she again thanked me and said (again) that we must get together for a coffee.

well....

I decided that the best (for me) is :
1. to put her in my black list on my phone (I made it so when (and if) she'll call my phone will not ring)
2. avoid any contact with her, via e-mails or text messages
3. get over it and get on with my life

thank you everyone for all your ideas and help....
I managed to screw my life but hopefully in a couple of years I'll feel better

Good for you!
Trust me you're not going have to wait a couple of years to get over her...

Just remember, sometimes when you really like some one, it's best to be just friends, because a friendship can last a lifetime. I know that may not make sense to you now, but when you have 5 or 10 different girls in rotation, a friend will be heaven!

Just so you know, I've had a major crush on this guy named Nefario for more then five years. He is in a rock band so he is a playboy. I have never been turned down by a guy, except for him. We would go out to sushi or to the bookstore, he is super funny so time would fly by. When it was time to say goodbye, he would give me a mind blowing hug. It was driving me crazy. Until...

A few months ago we went out to dinner. When were finished he walked me to my car. I turned around right before I got to the door and he walked right into me and I put my hands on his cheeks and just started kissing him. He kissed me back, it felt like a dream. He caressed my neck and kissed me in a way I have never been kissed before. Then he stopped cold. And whispered in my ear "I love you, and I want to know you forever, lovers come and lovers go but friends are forever..."

I understood exactly what he meant.
We still talk almost every day.
Next!

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Jessie
Phermax Pheromones

Hello again...
I thought I wouldn't post again in here, but....
she e-mailed me to thank me for all the help and asked me to go for a coffee...
she's going on vacations in a couple of weeks and she asked me to go for a coffee before that....
to tell you the truth I don't know what to do. a part of me wants to see her again, but there's another part that knows that nothing good will come from this......

Hey, I didn't read all of this, but why not get coffee with her and just not help with her homework anymore. Tell her you're too busy, or that you have to put more time into your own success if she asks why. Angle for a relationship, but if she just wants to be friends, ask yourself if she'd make a worthwhile friend and if you can keep it straight. Not too hard.