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Mate, its not about providing, you havent even slept with her yet!
Provide is what you do for someone that you are connected to, someone who is of importance for your life. This is just someone who might be an applicant for the job. She is not even approved yet.
It can be a shittest. If you go around provide for every single girl you meet, why would she be special, she also want you to reserve your resources for her, not burn them on applicants.
When you two are pairbonded then you can figure out who pays for what. There are better ways of being a gentleman.
This is why I never ASK a girl out. I let her know where Im going and she can tag along if she wants to.
ASKING, means that you already approved of her, you are the one being judged. The power is shifted, if you are not on a real date you are on equal terms, and it works just as fine!
Ezo
This is very well said. I always make it a point to eat before going out. $5 footlong at subway. If at anytime the girl I'm sarging mentions food... "I'm not hungry". Puts that question to rest, cuz hey, your a guy, and your suppose to be hungrier than she is. That usually eliminates 90% of associated costs with dating.
Dinner dates are akward in this regard. And its best to avoid them. I feel sorry for the chumps going on weekly dinner dates picking up the tab each time. I would think I would need to F-Close a girl at least a dozen times or so before it warranted taking her to dinner, <I>never mind actually paying for her tab</I>.
Another way to think of it. You should only take girls on "dates" if you are dating. Some girl you just # closed or maybe if slept with a few times isn't "dating".
This isn't meant to be a misogynistic outlook at all. It's appreciating your self worth and value. Think about your best friend. How much money do you truely spend on him? Would you routinely pay for his meals, drinks, cover charges, etc. Would he/she really be a friend if he expected you to do that? Maybe if he just lost his job and was having a tough time but in the normal sway of things I would say "buy your own damn cheeseburger bro".
If you wouldn't pay for these things for your best friends why would you pay for
complete fucking strangers you barely even know? Just because they have a hole? What does that really say about that person deep down inside that does that? What priorities and values does he hold?
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