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I wanna talk about mindset and inner confidence on this one; and how to develop that amazing mindset that makes you invincible and super seksi to HBs.
Last semester in college was a major growing experience for me. As far as picking up girls, I started at the bottom (showing little or no confidence around girls) and I rose to the top. My mindset became great, and my life was going super smooth. I was living a life i was proud of. I even managed to get a girlfriend which was key in developing this great mindset. This semester is all different though.
I have been mostly depressed throughout this new semester. My gf and I have broken up which contributed to the depression, along with other things. Basically, this semester has been less of a growing experience for me. I've been feeling hopeless and bound to my room, similar to how I felt in the beginning of last semester; the only difference is that this hopelessness has been going on for much longer. So my question is, how does one get out of this rut? I did it last time with ease, but I'm having some difficulties this time around. It's funny though, I never thought it was one-itis because I never thought about this girl. Throughout this semester though it became more evident that it was one-itis because I kept having dreams about her... and waking up melancholy.
maybe you need to start with: STOP BEING SUCH A PANSY.
"Baw baw, my life sucks etc etc." isn't gonna get you anywhere.
You obviously have it in you to rise above that pathetic situation where you're in now since you've done it before.
Fuck any negative thoughts. Reframe them as positive. and you should be well on your way.