My question is .....can you summarize in one paragraph your 77 posts pages into one grand finale answer to the meaning of life?....or just summarize it. Just for fun.

Hey Zip, what do ya think of this?

Lately, I act all cute and innocent whenever I'm flirting with girls. Here's what I do: I put my hands behind my back and move my hips side to side while I'm biting my lip and looking at them with a smile. Recently, it's been working for me. Most of the girls who seem to like it are older but not by much. Well, some moms like it but I'm not so sure if they're thinking what I HOPE they're thinking.

You think this will eventually work against me? The girls that I'm into (older females) seem to think it's cute.

Hey Zip,

I wrote about my situation on page 76. I guess it was too long? Anyways, I think I've decided to sleep with her when she gets back to the country, she is studying abroad. She has told me over FB chat she would like me to be her first. I have taken it sexual many times and she has been very receptive. My NEW question is, how can I go about taking her virginity without her obsessing over me? I hate to sound cocky but I can tell she really likes me, so much so I am afraid if I go through with this, and I try to keep space between us at the same time, she may feel like I used her. As her friend I can understand her wanting to have sex, but I don't want to be her boyfriend. Best play? Before hand, I'm thinking "I'm not interested in dating you, just so thats straight." I would consider dating her, but I feel she would be way more into me, than I her, making it end quickly, awkwardly, and painful for her. And she is my friend so I dont want to hurt her.

What's the difference between baking powder and baking soda?

Hey Zip. Thanks for all the help.

Ok, so I have a good girlfriend who I've known for like 15 years (we dated in 6th grade ). She told me a while ago she is still a virgin. She is 24. We lost touch for a few years when I left for college, but for the past year or so, we've been hanging out as friends when I make it back home to visit. We chat over the internet back and forth occasionally and I've steered it slightly sexual from time to time, but its always in that "friend" sort of way. Playful or whatever, but then switch to sincere, pretty much cus I DO want the low down!

So... I am the front-runner basically. Shes kinda hints at the type of guy she wants to do it with (my type), but its her first time! I feel bad for her cus she thinks about it ALL the time,. Its becoming obsessive. so in a way, i want to help; she is my friend and I care about her. If it wasnt such a big deal to her, hooking up with her wouldnt be a prob. She needs to get over this.... speedbump(?) tho. But part of me is like "No Way Man! That has Pandora written all over it!" I had a serious relationship with one of her best friends in hs, 2 years. That girl however is engaged to some other dude, the guy she dated after me.

The gossip concerns me way less than the friendship that would take place after the thing. Also, i dont think I can be honest with her about the number of girls I've been with. She wouldn't like that... What do you think??? She definitely needs to get laid. But she has this outrageous criteria, I understand cus its her first time, but the girl needs ass! Should I? She is depriving herself or normal sexual experiences, she is almost 25!

Hey Zippy, long time no see!

Anyway two little questions.

1. Swearing, your thoughts on it? Now manners is something I've been looking at, and so far I've come to the conclusion that manners help with comfort and make dealing with shit tests easy as pie.

2. "The difference between two people dating and a relationship is in the comfort and the connection; the emphasis moves from attraction to attatchment."

Do you agree or disagree, why?


Thanks Zip.