Here is my rant, just reply to main topic and ignore this if you don't want to read.

I feel like im losing confidence in sex fast after this last girl i slept with. She didnt seem that into it. I've slept with 15 girls so far and looking back on it a few of them didn't i don't think. Of course i had long term relationships where i had sex 100+ times with a couple girls so obviously they liked it enough to stick around. But a couple of my one night stands, i felt the chemistry wasn't there.

When i go at it i usually go pretty fast like in porn. However, this makes me sweat and get exhausted easily. I feel like i have the opposite problem of premature ejact which is it takes a long time to finish the first time i sleep with a girl. I think it has something to do with no emotional connection so harder to get off. Also alcohol is involved with a lot of my first time hookups. And condoms sucks too in trying to get off.

So what positions and speed do you think girls prefer the best? Or do you think it just varies from girl to girl as to why i felt like i didn't do well with about 1/3 of the girls i slept with, i feel i did well with 1/3 and one 1/3 im not sure out of 15.

just go slow man its all about passion making them feel like u have knowen eachother for like 10 years.

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The Rossatron
Edinburgh
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Yeah looking back on it, i think they prefer it slower instead of like a dog humping your leg. Atleast i learned at this point. Then again some want it hard so it's like im losing sexual confidence in choosing which way to go. But i think im going to try slow with my next hookup.

well let her take control champ. start with her on top and see how fast she goes.

if ur doing doggy see if she pushes back and stuff. just suss it out.

i always find slow with lots of passionate kissing like deep intence love making in old school adult films on tv form the 80s work.

it makes the girl feel like she has known you for ages, dont get me wrong u eat out that pussy first and you make her cum like the bells of hell. but keep it passionate.

anything too sexual and she will feel dirty and being used

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The Rossatron
Edinburgh
Scotland
PFL

like i tell my friends that don't understand girls:


for girls, sex is a more sensual experience than a sexual one. work on the foreplay.

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It really depends on the girl. Yes girls are more sensual about sex than guys are, but like us guys they also want humping like a dog like sex from time to time. You just need to know when she wants it.

what? and dogs cant hump sensually?

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lol. Girls from time to time like to fuck the guys and their brains out. They are human/animals just like us and have such urges for such sex.

agreed!!! especially if it's a one night stand... basically you picked up a women and in her mind, the reason why she's going home with you is because you showed her that you're a man and can handle yours!, now if you fuck like a rabbit while she's in a different stage, then you're just having your own pleasure, not considering hers..

now.. work on the foreplay.. tease her! drive her to ecstacy that she can't handle.. (this is not necessarily oral sex.. especially if it's a one night stand.. that's risky IMO) then when she's on that stage of sexuality.. she WILL hump you like a dog...

its all about the pair of u really...

I actually hate the awkwardness of the first shag, generally I still give good performance and Ive never had a one night stand so that must tell you something lol.

I have different "sexual timetables" depending on what your after to be honest with you. Most of the time im not a hump n dumper, most girls I tend to get over for 4 hours minimum. Some girls i been in bed with for 15+ hours.

Over these sessions I have figured out good methods, techniques, tricks and tips on how to really really really be an immaculate lover. Every woman from my 37yr old mistress to the 18yr old shorty all say how good my technique is.

I made one girl have 3 orgasms before we even had any penetrative sex.

Now I may sound confident and full of myself, but reading ur story made me see a glimpse of my past. I used to be the same, sexually I really wasnt educated, I lost my virginity at a relatively old age (17... in essex most lose at 14), I didnt have any really defining sexual experiences etc....

I think when I started to learn more PUA stuff and figure out what it is about womens company I enjoy etc, then that was when my sex life started changing. Ive been with some girls where 10 mins of hard work and im ready to blow, I really had no control over when I was going to orgasm, this was a) embarassing, b) made me anxious and c) ruined sex for me. That and then mix in a 3 year ltr where the sex was lasy and rushed on her part and u start to see the bigger picture..

Through my past relationships sex became a reward and withdrawing it became a punishment, there was always alot of emotion attached to sex so with it came a larger burden. Once Id removed these obstacles and once I had addressed the issues in my past, I noticed how my sex life increased in quantity and quality.

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