I'm asian and I've been getting into this PUA thing for maybe over a year. I've been getting good progress but I feel like my skills have topped off because of the fact that I'm asian. I've had several closes, but not as much as I would like.

Example, I was sarging my friend's cousin's friend, who was a HB10. I thought things were going pretty well, and number closed. I had a strong feeling she was attracted to me, but later on I found out through my friend that she's "just not into asians"

Also, I went online to this interracial dating site to online sarge, and did a quick search for women interested in asians. No kidding, I got only about 20 results.

I've also gone on some rating sites, and people would leave comments like, "sorry, just not into asians." My overall score, however, was around 8-9

I've just had several experiences of women not really being into asians, and it's hurting my moral. I feel like it's just difficult to find someone that is. Does anyone have any advice?

Maybe you should head over to the Asian Playboy, they focus mainly on Asian men in the US, so it works for you

Chief is probably better at answering this one because of his experience....

.....I think it's BS to not like someone based off of their race to begin with...if she really is a racist prick anyways....then your probably better off without her in my opinion....of course, I totally understand where you are coming from.

Attraction in the end is not a choice (geez, I find myself saying this a heck of a lot more nowadays). She most likely has a stereotype of being with an Asian man as DLV. So the first thing I would do is DHV myself. Show her your alpha. My ultimate advice is to work on your inner game so that this type of stuff is not bothersome to you to that point....

Is she Asian as well?

Well, anyhow, you got her number, so you must've done something right (assuming it's a solid number close of bout 20min?!). Heck, she could be thinking that, "man, this guy is totally not like the other Asian men I meet...." You can be that one that changes her mind, and in turn another, and another....leaving her better than when you found her. It wasn't her that told you that directly either...so there's still what if's involved...

As far as those internet sites.....who cares?! Really! Are going to let some website statistics that reflect shallow Western societies stereotypes be relevant to your life and your attitude/the way you feel. As with SUV's and Hemi's being less popular and replaced by smaller, more efficient cars.....trends and perceptions come and go.

Of course, it's her right to choose accordingly, so if that is the case, just move on. Or move to France http://goldsea.com/Features/Parisasians ... ians2.html

I would love to elaborate more ...but shit...I'll continue next time....gotta get some sleep....(to be cont. / edited)......

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Are you chinese or indian?

Coz I'm indian and I feel there's an automatic barrier between white girls and me. I dunno, maybe its me being dumb!

Figure out your goals; what is it that you want?

Remember the #1 rule regarding girls. They DO NOT make "decisions" on ANYTHING. God stopped giving SOULS to women long, long, long ago. There is no core. There is no chi. They actually don't even exist. Sure, you might run into an anomaly but most women are vagina surrounded by flesh fueled by fear of rejection.

"I don't dig Asians" . . . "I like LV bags" . . "I like vanilla" . . . "I don't like strawberry" . . . "I like to play with my hula hoop" . . ."These jeans are cool" . .

Everything that they say, do, and breathe is done ONLY to fit into to their little micro ecosystems. God forbid she wears the wrong freakin' skirt to the movies . . .

Once you accept this fact . . . once you truly understand this, there is only pity . . . OK, maybe a little sympathy for these poor little girls. Think about this . . . from the moment they are born to the day they die, they never, ever do ONE thing that is true to their heart. This is some serious shit . . .

So . . . of course some will say, "I am not into Asians" or "I'm not into blacks" . . . or "I'm not into white" . . . or "I'm not into donkeys or monkeys". If they live in some place where being "into Asians" is somewhat "taboo", of course they'll go with it. If they live in a place where "white" is uncool, of course they'll just go with it.

Fuck it and work it. You could fuck Hitler's racist niece if you put some effort into it . . .

What Kasabi says goes 10 times for males. If you are the typical wannabe PUA you are the most insecure of the insecure. And yes, typical Asian guys have some HUGE insecurities when it comes to females. You see lots of Asian girls with non-Asian guys, but you very rarely see the reverse. Of course that feeds your insecurity.

kasabi .. past few days i have been reading up his posts ... pure gold

I think I'd expand on the answer expat gave. I'd probably do a better job, more so since Im Indian (or Asian..depends if the reader is English or American).

Since the olden times, the British Raj...... I will cut all this BS.

Simple point is, us, Indians, still have a huuuuge inferiority complex to white skin. I can safely assume this is the case since I still, to a large extent suffer from this. And this is sadly something that is ingrained within us, due to the way we are brought up (fair skin is what every freakin girl in India wants..that, and a model husband).

There is still that stigma, which pushes Indians to hoot when they see a white woman in the street (quite an exaggeration here, but little snipe remarks wont go unnoticed).

Any way to get over this...I hear you ask? I dunno. All I can say is (and Im still working on it): Game white chicks. Dont think of getting laid, just try and understant them better. Trust me when I say, when you are lying next to a white girl post-coitus, you realise she is not that scary after all. She is just another girl who puts up a front so that people she doesnt like back out.

And to the OP who raised this issue, dont feel down mate. Consider it a challenge. If you really are worthy of a PUA status, then like someone else said, lay Hitler's neice (or grand neice, as that might the case be now).

The show must go on...

(Sorry, its the Queen song playing in the background)

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Anyone for sarging in Birmingham (or West Midlands)...gimme a shout.

This of course is the big clue . . .

1. The "score" is a sign of their emotional judgment. If you put out a photo of a hot guy of any race in the privacy of the girl's room, she mark her pencil in the circle marked with a 10.

2. The comment "Not into Asians" is an interaction with members of her society where she needs to constantly monitor and work to position her self in fear of being outcast.

The super fun thing about our game is that WE HAVE THE POWER to control both 1 and 2 above. Hell, let's not even over do it. If you do 1 of the 2 above well, she's on her knees sucking your cock.

you must be really picky, there are at least over 500 million indian females in the world

Kasabi dude....you need your own sticky "Asks Kasabi" page....your analogies are the funnier than *$&#.

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Don't sound needy. Who cares if they're not into Asians? You gotta act like "it's her lost." I can see why some girls are not into Asians. Maybe because they haven't met Asian guy who can sweep them off their feet. They haven’t seen an Asian guy that can be viewed as Leader of men, Pre-selection by other women, Protector of Love ones, Willingness to Emote, Non-neediness, etc. They probably have a stereotype Asians as shy, good at math, chinky eyes, etc. Us Asians, especially the up & coming PUAs need to change that view but who cares if they’re not willing to change. That’s not our lost.

A tad racist there won't you say?!

i don't know why but when i read this.. i remember this and maybe would share.. hahah.. funny!!! i'm asian too!


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.....the world will always give us roles to play...when you give in to that role...your screwed. Don't allow others the ability to limit and/or mold you.

...."Be the master of your own image rather than letting others define it for you."

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