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if you are getting called on it you are doing something wrong. lay off the routines and make up your own.
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It doesn't seem as if the OP is getting caught with "cans" but is rather being called a "pick up artist". This actually does happen to me once in a while; believe me, other than trying out that "shock and awe" one time about 6 or 8 months ago for fun, I have never used cans.
When it happens, it usually goes something like this:
Somewhere during the conversation, I'll start turning a girl on sexually and she'll give me a silly little test, and instead of backing off, I'll turn the throttle over to the max . . . I just pounce. It's right about when she hits that "all she can take" in a public area when she will blurt out stuff like, "What are you a playboy?" or "What are you a pick up artist?" or "You must have like 10 girlfriends or something . . ."(This one last weekend)
Then usually I just keep going. Last weekend I went something like, "Yes, I'd like to make you my eleventh."
Her: Get outta here . ..
Me: Of course I'm kidding. . .
Her: Liar
Me: Who the heck would have 10 girlfriends? . . . Hey, we're in a club. This isn't the real World. This is fantasy. Had I met you in a park, I couldn't just come up to you and grab you like this (grabbed her ass) nor could I grab you like this (her breast) - but this hand she pushed off to the side. Pretended like thing happened and went for the kiss. . . then of course, the hand back up to the breast . . . which she swiped away again but hell, we were in a club . . .