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PostPosted: Thu Mar 19, 2009 3:35 pm 
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Hi,

So, I asked this girl out yesterday. She agreed to meet this Sunday but she asked me if she could bring couple of her friends. Now I don't get this why she wants to bring her friends with her... any ideas? any experiences etc?...what should I do? Should I say 'NO'??.....

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PostPosted: Thu Mar 19, 2009 3:49 pm 
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Looks like your game was not tight enough. She probably wants to bring friends to make sure it's not a romantic date.

Btw... you shouldn't set up dates. You should make them participate in your social activities.

I would accept it and then when you meet there you should apply some group theory to disarm the obstacles (her friends) and isolate her.

I may be wrong. You better wait for some guru to answer your question. But that's my opinion based on my experiences so far.


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PostPosted: Thu Mar 19, 2009 6:46 pm 
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this is a very normal thing, cause its her first time to go out with you.
on the date, talk to her friends more than just talk to her. be funny, make sure her friends like you. in this way, you can get her for sure.
you know what, if her friends like you, they will give nice advice to her, and girls do listen and care what their best friends say!!


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PostPosted: Thu Mar 19, 2009 6:56 pm 
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You didnt build enough attraction and comfort.
Try building more on the phone, and if you go
with her and her friends DONT be the third wheel!
Make her friends like you and you can use this
"group" date to your advantage.


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you got a new set - and some DHV points if you play your cards right.

But yeah - like myth was saying, throw her an option to join you and your friends. This is far more effective.


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I really don't know what you're worried about my man, more girls is never a bad thing 8)

But yes, having friends there is just like a... social lubricant. They make her feel more comfortable, as opposed to being alone with some guy she's never really hung out with before. As stated in Seinfeld, why would you play a man-to-man when you can play a zone?

This is really nothing to worry about. Just keep running your game, be funny, charming, cool, get her friends to like you. Then pick whichever one you like best (you don't have to stick with the original, you know) and start escalating. Or escalate with all of them ;)

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PostPosted: Thu Mar 19, 2009 10:18 pm 
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She just feels comfortable around her friends and probably isn't too familiar with you yet. I woulnd't take it the wrong way at all. In fact, now you have the opportunity to get an in with her friends. Granted she brings along girls, you could run a little game on them too and force some social credentials. If her friends like you a lot, her attraction towards you will probably increase.


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Hey VHDL

Everybody has pretty much hit the nail on the head and I would listen to what they are saying.

If you could bring another girl on the date meaning one of your friends from social network of women that would be cool. If it bombs out you could always make these women apart of your social network.

Having a social network of women allows girls to feel more attracted and comfortable around you and it speaks volumes to other girls


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