so, theres this girl I feel really attracted to, we've been meeting each other occasionally from time to time its been a year and now Ive finnaly asked for her #

here's the context
I was introduced to this girl in a course about a year ago, by that time I tought she was a lesbian because she had a shaved hair, we also didnt talk much during this course, we weren't even of the same class etc etc

then after it I started meeting her on the places I hang with a certain regularity and surprisingly for me we started having great convos, always nice conversations, kinos flying around, there were times where she was bit drunk and would straight up hit on me, but I always played it cool since she was with her friends and I were with mine's I didn't want to go needy and try to make it more than it was
my guess is that it built a lot of rapport over both this way but still there's always a kind of distance(safe one?) because we hadnt a way to contact each other and all the times we met it wasnt planned

I met her again thursday and I asked her # finnaly, I guess I should've tried to set something at the moment but I forgot

I want to call and set something, but I really don't want to screw it up

the biggest block here to me is, I don't have a car, and also that maybe if I try to set on weekends it may stumble on her normal weekend plans, I was thinking maybe set on evening? or just call to have a chat before seting something?

Im 21, I know she's a little bit older, she likes rock'n roll, smokes, drinks, plays snooker and so do I
I think she doesnt have a car either

well, advices plz

21 without a car?
well you could tell her to do you a favor by taking you to the mall or store
or w.e you come up with cuz you want to buy a friend a present for his/her b-day or be creative.. indirectly asking her on what turns out to be a date and shes driving

yeah not having a car sux, I`ll maybe getting one from my dad this year
but here in Brasil things a little different, the minimum age for driving is 18 and well, cars are pricy, not everyone gets one around here just because they turned 18
this girl I don`t know if she has one too, I`ve seen she working as handler of bar event flyer, and she seems to go same places I do, so she must probably be around my class

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abundance mentality, man.

you already fucked up by not wanting to fuck up.

met her again thursday and I asked her # finnaly, I guess I should've tried to set something at the moment but I forgot

You forgot, or you were 'timid'? Girls can smell fear a mile away and they will pounce all over you (mentally) if they do.

Women will try and dominate the realtionship if they sense weakness. If they succeed, they will resent you (subconsciously) for letting them.

You need to get that confidence level up before you can make any progress with her and girls in general.

If a girl's IL/attraction is high enough, you not having a car will be irrelevant. She will take 2 buses, 3 trains and walk a mile just to be around you.

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oh cmon, Im pua lounge level! haha well I know this was pretty much a newbie post

its that thing, I value her
I know there's abundance, one girl wanted to go to a bar with me today and I refused, one asked me to lunch with her on friday and another one thats explicity hiting on me invited me to a party saturday(two hb8 I'd say ;P)
Im a charming dude, pretty smooth and confident normally
but I can recognize when there's a girl with qualities and potencial qualities that surelly are NOT abundant, what comes easy goes easy

I know if she's receptive to me I'll have no problems chatting, seducing, showing Im high value and such, thats why Im considering the 'feet in the door' the most important step

anyways, I called her, when she remembered me she was readily willing to chat, unfortunetaly her phone aparently ran out of credits or is with some bug(when I called her it'd give the off message without even ringing... then she called me back) and our conversation was cut short
but I feel confortable to call her now, wish me luck ;P