Are you all Americans? There's so much chat about suing!
I've never had any problems with girls I've dated / fucked from a work place. Never seen anyone get fired when it ended either. I know of 30 relationships @ work now. If someone leaves when it doesn't work out it's got fuck all to do with your employer!
Not tapping a HB because you work together is Beta. People think you the man = promotion.

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bro.. as stated above i really wouldn't recommend in work

ever herd the saying 'don't shit where you eat' ?

Megarwa. Your post is non-sequitur.

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Hey Kowalski, I totally know what you mean.

Im american but live in denmark, here its more or less ok to date coworkers, but there are unwritten social rules. People are far more down to earth and dont suffer from double moralism or OMGIMGONNASUEYOUFORAZILLIONITIS.

Either way, you can game at work in the states. Ive done it, no problem.

1.Weight cost vs benefit. If you love your job and dont want to take a risk, or cant afford to lose it regardless, or feel that the situation could be high risk, then dont game at work. Otherwise, green light means go!

2.Keep it subtly overt, as one of the first posters recommended. Be a rooster to everybody, just be a happy winner, make sure you are garnering comfort with all of your coworkers, make sure you are not building resentment with department heads. This is a good thing to do regardless, it can give you upward momentum when they are discussing promotions in closed rooms. And yes, it will help disguise your targeted flirting.

3.Keep it ABSOLUTELY confidential. Do not brag to anybody, regardless of how awesome you are or how hot she was. The girls will respect this immensely. Your own job will very well depend on it. Even in easy go lucky denmark, if you are shaking the hens and they are all squawking about it, the boss is going to want to let you go in order to induce calm.

4.Never date a girl in your own department. Make sure you have limited professional contact, so that each of you will have breathing room when it eventually turns south. Very few office romances end up as long term relationships.

5.Keep your mind on work at work. Dont fuck her in the office. Dont waste time on her when you have a job to do.

Follow those five rules, and you should be pretty golden. Good luck.

PS: If you have a McJob, then by all means fuck every girl you can who doesn't look like she actually eats the food, and in the mean time start looking for a real job.

kino escelate, make a secret "work" hand shake, tell stories bout crazy things that have happened at the place u wrk (with DHVs)

show her around, call the shots

Dont rate her first of all....."ranking her ".

Be professional about it and snag her number some how that way you can take your offensive out of the work place(for your sake and hers, so you may progress outside of work quicker and without concern of whos watching/around).

It all can be done the same way just a whole professional approach is required(at least I think). Compared to how I'd run on some other girl elsewhere.

was a file clerk, banged manager outside of department after many "hangouts"....had to leave because of it.....no regrets. Job sucked balls.

Marvel.
Expand please. I'm interested to know more about your situation.

Peace

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Gaming at work can be good fun but you have to be subtle. I think Slipfinger got it about right, if you treat everyone in your workplace the same you can't be accused of trying to pick up any one girl. If you fuck it up at best you might feel uncomfortable, at worst you might be jobless. Personally i game at work (and i think it massively improves my working day) but i tone it down somewhat fom what i would do 'in the field'. Just remember never to ASK for anything, if you're doing it right she'll give YOU her number. Never make it obvious that you're trying to pick her up, basic advice but very important in this scenario.

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if you neg her and become friends you can use her for her friends. Then let's say that you go out with her and her friends if you start showing them attention she will probably become more attracted to you. As for the others that say gaming at work shouldn't be done i would have to disagree. For one the way you described your situation it sounds like she works at a different store than you or whatever so i say go for it. Two, I think life is too short and that every opportunity should be taken advantage of. Good luck though man