Hooray hyperbolic titles!!!

Anyway here's a bit of what i teach on bootcamps. These are things that I think come as close as possible to being 100% true when picking girls up.

1. Ignore anything which cannot help you get the girl. This is the heart of being non-reactive, dealing with social pressure, whatever you wanna call it. You have to learn to ignore things, be they congruence tests or guys entering your sets. If it doesn't help you, it's useless and not worth giving attention to.

2. Always be cooler than the girl. Even if it's just .001% you always have to act as if you think she's not as cool as you. This can take the form of teasing, commanding, or simply not explaining yourself. Girls are just not evolutionarily programmed to be attracted to guys of equal or lesser status. It sucks but it's the way the world works.

3. ABC. Or always be closing as my buddy Entropy would say. As a man you must take all responsibility for escalation. From physically escalating to maintaining plausible deniability with her friends. Everything is up to you. Men are sexually aggressive, women are sexually receptive.

4. Saying something is better than saying nothing. When you see a girl you want to approach it is WAY easier to go in and mess it up than to sit around debating the different ways you could do it. Give yourself permission to fail. Because even trying puts you ahead of 99% of guys.

5. Thinking in field is the enemy. I always say " less thinking, more making moves." Which besides being a line I stole from a Dave Chapelle stand up special, applies to pick up perfectly. Thinking is the worst thing you can be doing when you're out. Actually maybe it's the second worst after talking about game. Instead let go of the outcome, recognize that you are on the plateau as George Leonard calls it in Mastery and put in the work. Do approaches, get blown out, learn. That's the only point of going out to game. Not to oggle and complain about how all the sets are too hard.

So those are my five rules of pick up. If you stick to those you should be off to a good start in your learning process.

S

very good information, thanks for sharing

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My favorite part of the whole post. Best advice out there.

Great post!

CK

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I think it's a great post where people analyze social interactions more then gaining experience in social interactions by not going out to trying. It's funny how you can meet someone who has read hours of Pick up material, but because he hasn't allowed himself to go out and practice the wealth of information, he ends up "in his head" most of the time.

I agree with most, however I think it's plausible for a girl to like someone of less value. Women biologically work on the same system, HB10's aren't harder to attract, thiers just more competition.

And 1 thing many guys and girls know about me is that one of my top 3 passions is PU.

I talk about it when I'm in field very often. I've yet to find negative effects from that as a result.

great post dude, but i think you forgot one law

DON'T DRINK AND SARGE. this seriously fucks up my game and from what iv heard most other peoples too.

good post. thats what i tell all my friends when were out either tlking to girls or sneaking in bar. "whats the worst that could happen...you get rejected" problably wont see that girl again anyway.

I agree; with sarging the best thing you can do is avoid thinking, as thinking brings about, very quickly, approach anxiety. Its just like how anyone who sky dive's for their first time is going to be nervous because they over think it.

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