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Myth: Are girls socially programed for the most part to go for taller guys

I am asking this because I think it is true, and it comes from another thread where height is being talked about.
I think this link can sum it up better than I can. http://www.bodylanguageproject.com/articles/tallmen.htm

Make sure you read after the stuff just about attraction. The article describes how height can influence other facets of life.


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Myth 1: Women don't like "nice" guys.
Wrong... I'm not saying you need to be a jerk! Please don't do that!! But you have to give her the chance to miss you and WANT you.
Women LOVE strong, affirmative, supportive, respectful, appreciative NICE guys. They HATE guys who'll BEND. If you're strong enough to stand up for yourself, AND strong enough to offer assistance to a lady, AND EVEN strong enough not to be offended if she doesn't require it, then you'll be the ideal NICE GUY.

Nice guys DO finish last - after their ladies have been thoroughly satisfied. (I generally finish onto one or more smiling faces, frankly.)

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Myth 2: Women have it easy because they can be emotional and say what they want and Myth 3: Women get along so well with their friends because they are always talking/gossiping

If there's ONE THING all men and women can agree upon, it's that you can't trust women.

This is because overwhelmingly all women KNOW they can expect to be fucked-over by their very closest girlfriends, someday. AND they will then be expected to forgive them... Most likely they will, but the TRUST will be long gone.

Women VERY VERY infrequently say what they truly want, and they even very rarely express how they truly feel. They don't realize that being strong enough to express themselves WILL get them the life satisfaction they crave, because they get socially beaten-down for admitting their hearts' desires.
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Myth 4: Women like to wear tight little clothes
Sorry, my life experience tells me this is NOT a myth, if the women are erotically interested in the men with whom they'll be interacting.

I suppose most women don't have that much opportunity to be amongst genuinely attractive and sexually compelling men.

GUYS, get with the program!
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Myth 5: Women can have sex whenever they want because men won't turn down sex
This is of course not true, HOWEVER women express their SCORN extremely assertively when their advances are not accepted. Hell hath no fury...

Most men I've know admit to have been 'date raped' on occasion by women who would not take no for an answer... I know I have been badgered into submission in my own past.
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Myth 6: Women don't need to learn PU
Women, in general, are naturally more socialable and learn how to interact at a younger age and faster pace than men. But not all women know how to attract and sustain a healthy relationhip. Women should learn PU not to learn how to meet a guy, but how to meet a GREAT guy!
Nothing except agreement here :) Except that women also need to appreciate that once they've found that GREAT GUY, they need to give him the latitude and flexibility required for him to feel like a man, and not make their TIGER into a house-cat!
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Myth 7: Women don't like sex and don't like to talk about it
False....next question! haha but seriously...sex is enjoyable for us too! Society just tells us we can't talk about it openly. But thanks to Cosmo and other magazines that is starting to change. Some women may be too shy to talk about sex, that is true...but most women talk about sex and they talk about it in detail. Your girlfriends will gush to their friends EVERYTHING about you and the sex...so beware!
Actually, you can use this to your advantage -
Wherever possible, hook up on a 'doesn't count' basis with women who work with other women in a locker-room environment; dancers, strippers, models, etc - this way, when you totally rock one girls' world, MOST of her friends will have heard about it and will be interested and intrigued.

"Who's the fat guy in the Hawaiian shirt with the horns on his head?!"
"Oh, that's JOHNNY... you're gonna LIKE him!"
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Myth 8: Women should always smile
Nothing gets me more angry when I'm just sitting around on a bench or something and some guy tells me to smile or that I look sad. I'm not going to sit there cheesin just because society tells me to....if I am bored I am going to look bored; if I am sad I have the right to look sad....don't tell me to smile unless you know me and know why I am upset and are trying to cheer me up.
While pretty girls certainly look better smiling, it's no one's right to intrude on anyone else mood. The best thing one can do is directly ask "Is everything okay?" (or, if it's a Goth girl, "Is ANYTHING okay?" ;)) and see if she seems amenable to venting to you.
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Myth 9: Women can't read
Hahaha ok, jk I was just making sure you were still paying attention!
Women can read. Bonita can even write, it seems!
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Myth 10: Women are in control of their love life
Women suck at relationships. There I said it! I have spent so many hours listening to my friends complain about how they can't find anyone good. In reality they are their own worst enemy and they need a man to protect them from themselves. Women destroy their chances with great guys everyday in a number of ways....she will dismiss a guy that is talking to her because she thinks she is out of his league, she won't make eye contact with a cute guy because she is either shy or trying to be coy (that is a personal favorite that i notice all the time), she lets her friends opinions control her own, she doesn't know what she wants in a man or thinks she knows but is wrong, and she won't admit when she needs help dating.
Damn right. :)

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Myth 4: Women like to wear tight little clothes
Sorry, my life experience tells me this is NOT a myth, if the women are erotically interested in the men with whom they'll be interacting.

I suppose most women don't have that much opportunity to be amongst genuinely attractive and sexually compelling men.

GUYS, get with the program!
Sorry, but my life experience tells me differently! lol....Yes tight clothes and heels can make women feel sexy and put them in an erotic state but it is not the clothes that they actually like (for the majority)...it is the attention and feeback from men. Men respond favorably to tight clothes. If men responded the same way to sweatpants as they did to mini skirts, then women would be wearing sweatpants to the club.

I see what you are saying but it isnt the clothes that women like (bc they are NOT comfortable)...it is the ATTENTION that the women like.


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Myth 4: Women like to wear tight little clothes
Sorry, my life experience tells me this is NOT a myth, if the women are erotically interested in the men with whom they'll be interacting.

I suppose most women don't have that much opportunity to be amongst genuinely attractive and sexually compelling men.

GUYS, get with the program!
Sorry, but my life experience tells me differently! lol....Yes tight clothes and heels can make women feel sexy and put them in an erotic state but it is not the clothes that they actually like (for the majority)...it is the attention and feeback from men. Men respond favorably to tight clothes. If men responded the same way to sweatpants as they did to mini skirts, then women would be wearing sweatpants to the club.

I see what you are saying but it isnt the clothes that women like (bc they are NOT comfortable)...it is the ATTENTION that the women like.
I think you're quibbling over semantics darlin.

Do you think that a suit is as comfortable as sweats and a muscle shirt? No, it's not. But GOD DAMN I LOVE to wear a nice suit and tie cause it makes me feel like a million bucks! I look fucking HOT in a suit and I FEEL HOT too!

Just cause you can say that the clothes themselves aren't quite as comfortable as an alternate outfit doesn't mean that the feelings derived from wearing the outfit aren't part of the outfit itself. Many things we do aren't actually enjoyable in and of themselves, yet the results they yield and thus the effect they have upon us is what we truly love, so we say that we love that thing that is the cause of it.

Women love sexy clothes because the effect they have upon men and how men treat them as a result, thus women love wearing sexy clothes aka tight clothes.

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Sorry, my life experience tells me this is NOT a myth, if the women are erotically interested in the men with whom they'll be interacting.

I suppose most women don't have that much opportunity to be amongst genuinely attractive and sexually compelling men.

GUYS, get with the program!
Sorry, but my life experience tells me differently! lol....Yes tight clothes and heels can make women feel sexy and put them in an erotic state but it is not the clothes that they actually like (for the majority)...it is the attention and feeback from men. Men respond favorably to tight clothes. If men responded the same way to sweatpants as they did to mini skirts, then women would be wearing sweatpants to the club.

I see what you are saying but it isnt the clothes that women like (bc they are NOT comfortable)...it is the ATTENTION that the women like.
I like dressing sexy because it makes me feel sexy. Sure getting comments from guys is nice too, BUT to be quite honest that doesn't matter. I just like the overall feeling. Its like when a little girl puts on makeup and her mothers high heels. She wants to feel pretty.

Plus I strongly believe that girls dress for other girls rather than guys anyways. Getting a compliment from another girl means a lot more than one from a guy. After all I can dress up in a T-shirt and jeans and still be able to grab attention from the guys.

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I like dressing sexy because it makes me feel sexy. Sure getting comments from guys is nice too, BUT to be quite honest that doesn't matter. I just like the overall feeling. Its like when a little girl puts on makeup and her mothers high heels. She wants to feel pretty.

Plus I strongly believe that girls dress for other girls rather than guys anyways. Getting a compliment from another girl means a lot more than one from a guy. After all I can dress up in a T-shirt and jeans and still be able to grab attention from the guys.
Do you feel comfortable in that though? How many times have you been out in your stilettos and complained of how badly they hurt and couldnt wait to sit down. I do agree it makes some women feel more sexy I am just saying if we weren't programmed that way then we would be wearing sweatpants everywhere. Back in the old days women didn't wear heels and short skirts but I'm sure they found other ways to feel sexy and desired...the times have just changed. If I could go to the bar in sweats and garner the same attention that I do in a cocktail dress, then you know which one I'd be wearing....

For men it isnt the same...Im sure a suit makes you feel a different way but you can still look good dressed down in jeans or something comfortable like that.

And touche...there is nothing better when the girl you love to hate compliments how good you look![/quote]


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For men it isnt the same...Im sure a suit makes you feel a different way but you can still look good dressed down in jeans or something comfortable like that.
And girls can't do the jean thing because? I am aware about the social programing junk, but what is stopping a girl from wearing jeans compare to tight clothing?


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For men it isnt the same...Im sure a suit makes you feel a different way but you can still look good dressed down in jeans or something comfortable like that.
And girls can't do the jean thing because? I am aware about the social programing junk, but what is stopping a girl from wearing jeans compare to tight clothing?

I'm talking about in clubs. In places like NY and Las Vegas etc...there are clubs that won't let women in who are wearing jeans. You have to be wearing a dress and heels.


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For men it isnt the same...Im sure a suit makes you feel a different way but you can still look good dressed down in jeans or something comfortable like that.
And girls can't do the jean thing because? I am aware about the social programing junk, but what is stopping a girl from wearing jeans compare to tight clothing?

I'm talking about in clubs. In places like NY and Las Vegas etc...there are clubs that won't let women in who are wearing jeans. You have to be wearing a dress and heels.
Ah I see I thought you where saying in general. Question, at those clubs with a dress code, do the girls get in for free while the guy have to pay a cover charge of some kind? And isn't there a dress code for guys at the same clubs?


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And girls can't do the jean thing because? I am aware about the social programing junk, but what is stopping a girl from wearing jeans compare to tight clothing?

I'm talking about in clubs. In places like NY and Las Vegas etc...there are clubs that won't let women in who are wearing jeans. You have to be wearing a dress and heels.
Ah I see I thought you where saying in general. Question, at those clubs with a dress code, do the girls get in for free while the guy have to pay a cover charge of some kind? And isn't there a dress code for guys at the same clubs?

There is a dress code for men, but the dress code does not exploit men. Usually it is not hats, not sneakers etc...

Women do tend to get in for free. Correction...attractive women, wearing dresses/heels, in groups get in for free. Men can get in for free sometimes if they are with a group of women....or if they are "kinda of a big deal."


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There is a dress code for men, but the dress code does not exploit men. Usually it is not hats, not sneakers etc...

Women do tend to get in for free. Correction...attractive women, wearing dresses/heels, in groups get in for free. Men can get in for free sometimes if they are with a group of women....or if they are "kinda of a big deal."
I agree that there are clubs that to exploit girls, but from what I am able to tell the reason behind it is more business related than anything else. Because if the club can get the attractive girls in then the guys will follow and in turn they [the guys] will buy drinks for the girls, in turn the club makes more money. As the the guys will buy drinks for themselves plus will buy an "unlimited" amount of drinks for girls.

But this is one of many reasons why I stay away from clubs.


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Just out of curiosity, why would a women need seduction skill?

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There is a dress code for men, but the dress code does not exploit men. Usually it is not hats, not sneakers etc...

Women do tend to get in for free. Correction...attractive women, wearing dresses/heels, in groups get in for free. Men can get in for free sometimes if they are with a group of women....or if they are "kinda of a big deal."
I agree that there are clubs that to exploit girls, but from what I am able to tell the reason behind it is more business related than anything else. Because if the club can get the attractive girls in then the guys will follow and in turn they [the guys] will buy drinks for the girls, in turn the club makes more money. As the the guys will buy drinks for themselves plus will buy an "unlimited" amount of drinks for girls.

But this is one of many reasons why I stay away from clubs.

I completely agree...I'm not going to dispute that one bit :)


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Just out of curiosity, why would a women need seduction skill?
Ahh so you skipped over the inital post...very bad boy! lol jk...

You would think that women don't need pick up because they are women and men will sleep with most anything that walks right? But just because women are taught to be more social at a younger age doesnt mean they are always good at it. There are women that do not know how to maintain a relationship. And there are women that do not know how to attract men besides their looks. So to attract high value men, women will need more than just their looks...and women are not born with that ability....some actually suck at it!


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Just out of curiosity, why would a women need seduction skill?
Ahh so you skipped over the inital post...very bad boy! lol jk...

You would think that women don't need pick up because they are women and men will sleep with most anything that walks right? But just because women are taught to be more social at a younger age doesnt mean they are always good at it. There are women that do not know how to maintain a relationship. And there are women that do not know how to attract men besides their looks. So to attract high value men, women will need more than just their looks...and women are not born with that ability....some actually suck at it!
i have been a very bad boy lately...lol

Hmmm...i never consider that some women would suck at attracting man, besides the ugly chicks. I mean, i think it's still harder for man then for women to seduce. Most man don't know what women want, and to make matters worst, they are often miss leaded with wrong info. I assume it's pretty obvious that man are visual oriented, so unless you were butt ugly i'm not seeing how women suck at it. hmmm... I guess i see your point, some women do suck at relationships. What would a women need to work on to improve this?

BTW, is it possible for a physically ugly women to pick up a alpha male? I've personally never had a point where i felt attraction for a ugly women. I more then often use them as pawns for my personally gain. I'm not sure how you feel about this, but i usally exploit unattractive women for their hot friends and stuff like that. I don't know how a unattractive women can actually attract me. any thoughts on that?

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