Ok. I've been lurking a while now but could do with some real genuine help. Fast.

I met this girl out one saturday night a month back now. We had a great night (i mean AMAZING) and ended up going back to hers and closing..

Anyway, it turns out over the next few days that this girl is absolutely perfect; she's a modest 9, an intellectual, a writer like myself and I find her amazing in every possible way - this is where things go downhill.

We haven't seen each other since, I've been over complimenting (we talk a lot over msn) and have fallen into the "too full on" category. She's made a point of wanting to be just friends - this from obvious signs a relationship was on the cards. I played it all very badly as a result of finding her so amazing.

I've also learned through careful probing of her friend that there's another guy that she's been into for quite some time. It sounds like a push pull routine with him being distant for weeks at a time. They've recently been on a couple of nights out together.


Anyway, it's currently 5am, we're finally see each other 13 hours from now. I'm pretty sure this is salvageable but I'm not sure which direction i should be going with it.

Any and all advice here is much appreciated. ASAP

Thanks.

Make sure to throw in false disqualifiers right away. Talk about other girls and tease her a lot. You are going to have to re-build attraction from scratch. Really force yourself to not seem to interested in her, but do be talkative and interesting yourself.

Once you've established that you are not after her, you have to make yourself to appear to be of higher value than her on-again off-again boyfriend. Do this through DHV routines, gambits, and try to teach her some fascinating stuff, especially things about how her mind works.

Oh, and from the start, make sure you are working your way up the kino ladder. Greet with a hug (then immediate roll-off), touching of hand/shoulder... She should be very comfortable with you touching her. Due to your situation, you are going to have to roll-off and change your body language as to show disinterest whenever you do go kino.

She is going to have to subconsciously believe that you are the better man before she would be willing to cheat.