I have been at uni for a few weeks now, first year. and its been a great laugh made friends... it started amazing and now im dipping, i need to pick it up again, its draining my emotion and energy though, i feel like im now living in the shadow of this other guy (lets call him 'peter') ... he's funny, he makes girls laugh, he's got an accent from a different area and he's good looking, well not like really good looking but a good looking guy, and i now feel like he's stolen my shine a bit, he gets approached, he's pulled more girls since he arrived and he's decent to me but he definitely amog's me in his own way.... i dont know what to do, i want to be alpha over him, but he seems set in stone and, i know think and you will be, but its harder than it sounds...

looking for some solid advice... i mean i am told im good looking but i have major insecurities and worry about my appearance all the time, i mean even when he's being a predator he still gets approached. i dont. i feel like somethings missing, i have good female friends in my halls, and one problem is im not best mates with the guys who also hang out with the girls...

tonight was the worst night yet... i was not on form.

what can i do, i need to set myself straight, ve been dodging this type of post for a while... note that when im actually on the right focus and frame and am talking to the girl, it flows really well usually when im on a roll, but i do know i need to increase kino and isolate more smoothly...

help please guys, this is my cry for help now...

thanks guys

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This isn't an outer game thing about isolating or kino. You need to get some solid work done on your inner game. You need to create amazing self esteem and self confidence. Realise why you're an amazing guy. Realise why life is amazing and you love it. Commit yourself to always being happy and having fun.

Stop worrying about what other people think about you, or how you compare to other people. Just be yourself, but be your best self. Don't worry if you aren't getting instant results, just focus on being happy and positive and not caring about what other people think. Be an amazing person and be nice to people, do nice things for them if they ask, or ask if they would like your help if it looks like they could use it.

You'll start feeling amazing and emitting so many positive vibes that you'll be irresistable and even when you aren't getting the girls, you'll still be happy with yourself, so it won't matter. The other guy won't be able to AMOG you, cause you won't be phased by it and you'll end up AMOGing him without trying. All the guys will want to be your friend and all the girls will want to be with you.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

Sierra its not the fact the your buddy gets girls all time. reality is you're not in competition with him at all

The fact of the matter is you're not being your real self around women and you're becoming frustrated with doing the whole PUA routine wasting massive amounts of time playing the C&F role or whatever and it's not working for you

You said you have female friends in your hall I'm sure some of them are HB's lets say on of these HB's whom you've been friends with all this time came up to you today and said "Can I suck your cock". You'd drop your pants so fast she wouldnt know what hit her.

She said what she wanted and the scenerio was going to go either one of 2 ways. You we're going to either accept the offer or reject it. But she was clear and concise with what she wanted from you.

Thats you're problem your not upfront with what you want. if you want her to suck you dick say it she'll get mad offended and shit test probably cuss you out you but if she's even remotely interested in you and you stand by what you said and don't apologize for what u said she'll be turned on and down for it

You can have the same success your friend is having he's just a man

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both great osts, cheers guys! your both right in so many ways, need to make a more solid and secure happy me and so secure that i dont apologise or doubt what i believe or say

~sierra~

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I like to hybrid techniques, inner game and methods with my own natural game.