Hi guys
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-This girl is in my class and she is half Asian half white, Im white btw. Reason i bring thisthis because some girls refuse to date outside thei race.
-She is between 8 and 9 on the looks department
-I have spoken to her once about class work(classes just started)
-20 ppl in class i sit behind her
-Should i add her on my facebook
-I do know few girls in this class, how can i use this to my advantage?
How can i initiate a conversationwith her or ask her out. As you can see im a noob so any advice will appreciated.



Thank You
Trajan

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First of all stop talking about class work with this chick. It makes you look boring and it's as if you have nothing else to say.

If you want to initiate a conversation with her ask her about her asian heritage and neg(It is when you make playful comments about someone) her whilst doing that. If there is a certain type of clothing she likes wearing talk to her about it. Talk to her about the kind of music she likes.

Good Luck!

There's nothing wrong with talking about class work or the teacher or a fellow classmate to make fun of. What matters is if you make the conversation interesting and it has lead to other topics. Be creative without trying. That's how you make it seem like it comes out naturally.

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Yes, I agree that it would be a total bummer if this girl only dates half Asian, half white guys.

nothin to worry about this situation ...if shes from china or a chinese speaking country start the conversation by sayin ni hao(hi) or if shes japanese by sayin konichiwa(hi) with a big smile and let her say the same to you then u can say that u have a great interest in asian culture and ask her which city her ancestries come from ( dont ask the country as u have to learn it b4 u talk to her) ..

You have plenty to worry about with the above routine. Just because the girl is Asian doesn't mean you go AFC. The above is the "stalker" route, figuring out where she's from, telling her some lie about your interest in Asian culture . . . asking her about her city of origin and her ancestral backgrounds. Christ, she could be some chick from the Bronx . . .

The biggest insult you can give an Asian girl who could actually be AMERICAN, is to start off with your broken language skills. It's as bad as going up to an American Indian girl and opening with, "I Chief Strong Bow, like you Little Feather . . ." And you wouldn't go to ANY girl asking about her ancestral shit. Dude . . . this is bad.

First off, as the girl of this topic is half Asian & half white, she is most likely as American as apple pie and baseball, only even more open minded than most as she grew up in a multi-cultural family.

Second, even if she just flew into JFK 1 week ago, you must game her JUST as you would with any other HB.

This all changes if you actually know a thing or two about various Asian culture, cities, people, history, etc . . . I'd go on and on about the Asian Game but I really don't think it applies to this thread.

I agree with this, i think she's more American than I am(she was born here) and has a last name that i doubt is Asian. There is no way that i am going to speak Chinese or whatever language to a chick that was born here cause i know i look like an idiot. Most importantly i dont know were she is from so no worth the risk.

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Not sure what the big deal is as this is just a typical day time 1 set.

You should ALWAYS be striking up some regular convo with the girls you know there. A great topic would be anything that involves activities OUTSIDE the class (shows you meet with them in other situations) Get yourself into fun activities and talk about fun activities. School is typically a bore for most. Kids drink on the weekends. . . What else?

Let me tell you what happens when you're a fun guy who regularly chats up the girls. . . Proximity Alert!

Other girls . . . including very possibly, your target will graze nearby. Even if she doesn't get it, you can easily frame your group and move your crowd towards her. Walk out while talking . . . THEY WILL follow. And the next move doesn't have to even be on the same day.

This is a total "under the radar" situation(in regards to sex) but I think you should be very forward and confident. "Hey ______, a bunch of us are heading to _______ this weekend. You should join. It's going to be a ton of fun." (Do NOT for one minute think that she doesn't want to go. There is no girl on Earth who does not want to engage in a fun social situation over the weekend with a fun group)

But she may be shy . . . who knows . . . so she might say something dumb and shoot you down. Your answer is, "Oh OK . . . maybe next time . . . "

In this scenario, she is going to kick her self in the ass every night thinking, "I should have said yes . . ." over and over again. She's going to focus on you more. So next time you see her, rub her nose in it a bit by saying "hi" to her with a great smile but don't mention any activities to her for a few times. Remember, you only chat about FUN SHIT with "open minded girls" (This is the message)

Stop thinking about sucking on her exotic, moist, juicy tongue for just now and everything else will fall into place.

lol, your the man brah. I think that reply raised my confidence too, ill take it to heart. I see her tomorrow so ill keep you guys updated.

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A couple of quick tips, Trajan [BTW roman emperor names ROCK!]. The class is small, so the sarge will be harder than in a big lecture. You'll see her every time you have that class, so the risks you take are greater.

The best thing is to see her outside of class. That way you can separate your seduction from class. Ideally, a fast close would be best, or if you can't pull that off, just keep her in the pipeline and look "busy" (non-needy). The best classes to pick up girls are the BIG classes with hundreds of students, that way it's less awkward.

Oh, and talk about something other than class work. Trust me, I once bombed an opportunity with an HB9 that way... just talking about schoolwork and then saying she's cool and asking for her number. She wanted to get the HELL away from me. Here's why - if girls get used to seeing you as a "friend" or a guy who's struggling to be a "friend", it will look very strange if you suddenly start showing interest in them as more than friends.

Talk about life, your weekend, and use her answer to tie in with your life experiences (insert DHV story here!) then tease her playfully if you can.

Get her to see you as a MAN and not just a "cool guy".

Oh, and just for your own benefit DON'T BOTHER adding her on facebook until you have SLEPT with her. Adding her on facebook = wanting to be "friends", unless you have CLOSED THE DEAL. Besides, it will look like you are trying to get rapport when she did nothing to earn it. You must attract and qualify her before you do rapport.

It may be possible to add her sooner, but I wouldn't even risk it. Too much interest, and it looks like you're settling for dropping from a potential lover to a "confirmed" friend! Lol, one girl I f-closed even tried to add me on Facebook later and sent a very passionate message that was just too much drama for me, I never added her or mentioned the message because after you're intimate, it's really irrelevant unless you decide to have a relationship.

Unless she knows the girls you know, don't use them as social proof. Plus, that depends on how well you know them. This is a lot less casual than a club, though still casual.

And NEVER try to act "asian" with her. Trust me, saying "ni hao" will make you look racist unless she knows NO English, and you have said that is not the case. That guy gave very bad advice. If she's half white, she's even less asian than all the whitewashed 2nd generation Asians you see at colleges. And even many of THEM only know English.

One more thing - ANY girl will date outside her race as long as the guy holds enough attraction for her. Most girls who claim they don't go inter-racial are flat-out LYING or it's a shit-test the use to get rid of clueless "nice guys" and AFC's. Plus it's highly unlikely she will even do that - from my experience it's rare, especially with mixed-race girls like the one you describe. She's already half white, plus Asians date white guys ALL THE TIME. BTW, if you think your situation is hard, I'm Middle Eastern and yet I've gotten blond white girls, I never got called a "terrorist" or any shit like that - just learn some SOLID GAME and show your attractive qualities, and there will be no suspicions on her part.

Happy sarging,
~HotIce

Her race should NOT be an issue at all. Just as long as you don't make racist comments or actions, you will be fine.

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What you should do is use a DHV stories every time you are near her, don’t attempt to pull her in until she attempts to gain more of your attention

But don’t worry the turnaround time will be fast, use pre-selection, caring for loved ones and leader of men a lot as the bases for your stories as these are easily repeated in different ways. stories about being begged to go go-karting with Jess, Mary and Sue which was some much fun until Jess burnt her hand on the engine so you sent the others home and took her to hospital, on your way you called your mate Bob and sent him on a journey to get for her because she was upset and you knew they are her favorite sweets.

This kind of thing will work so fast

Responses like "was she ok" and "did you really get her sweets" will come flying in from all angles not just her as the attraction starts to grow and pre-selection starts to kick in form the other girl learning.

Your stories don’t need so much in them but this is the kind of thing is what I mean.

Now you have a good bases to start game her form e.g. cocky funny “she’s lucky I like jelly babies too because I was thinking about haribos”

p.s. it doesn’t matter where she’s from that’s something she will tell you all about in comfort

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first off dont stress so much over 1 girl and second just open again with "are u in my _______wat ever class?" make sure its a class u know shes not in.
Obviously shes gonna say no
the say."oh you look exactly like some other girl."...
do it towards the end of class, so u got time to stack some routines.
i got this from one of the another PUA..it worked for him and it worked for me too.

"Oh you look exactly like some other girl."

Made me think of other asian chicks looking alike. Nice one.

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word up!

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