thanks you two.

i have this weird thing. Every one says i have a powerful look.
if your gay and your at a gay bar its different to pick up. i have to say its easyer. but still. I have a different style. Here in Portugal individuality is not so common, but im quite...different. all i have to do is sit there... look at the "target" and they come to me. im really used to it.

i mean... im 18, and i went to a gay bar where mostly men hang out. and in 2 weeks i picked up a 25 year old a 17 year old a 21 year old an 18 year old a 45 year old a 22 year old and a 32 year old. all girls... because i dont go for guys.

I have issues outside gay bars though, and i could use some help. Im not sure how to go up to a girl who is most likely straight and try to pick her up. I have no issues just talking to people. I got over my fears on that its just after that... im stuck when im not in a gay place.

Picking up straight girls... is easier than picking up gay girls. All she has to do is target a larger group - and not come off as hitting on them, so much as befriending... be funny and knowledgeable about the bar, and the area you're in (ie. expert of the UWS hot spots, why are you out etc) - you NEED a wing man for this, you cant solo rock out and get a straight girl... you look like you're picking them up instead of just "making new friends" - get them wrapped up in crowd mentality, makes them more comfortable and "go with the flow" do... NOT BUY THEM DRINKS!!
... and DONT do shots, you'll blow it. no one wants a drunk sloppy girl. makes for a bad bang...

As the night goes on - make sure to totally ignore the hot girl (target) this... will drive straight girls nuts, and then let them know she's just not your type - all girls... want to be everyones "type"

... it's done. you gotta know what you're tlaking about - and not come off skeezy. don't act like a boy... re state... DONT act like a boy... and don't drop that you're gay right off... they'll put up all kinds of walls.

Call me if she needs more. xoxo

thanks you two.

i have this weird thing. Every one says i have a powerful look.
if your gay and your at a gay bar its different to pick up. i have to say its easyer. but still. I have a different style. Here in Portugal individuality is not so common, but im quite...different. all i have to do is sit there... look at the "target" and they come to me. im really used to it.

i mean... im 18, and i went to a gay bar where mostly men hang out. and in 2 weeks i picked up a 25 year old a 17 year old a 21 year old an 18 year old a 45 year old a 22 year old and a 32 year old. all girls... because i dont go for guys.

I have issues outside gay bars though, and i could use some help. Im not sure how to go up to a girl who is most likely straight and try to pick her up. I have no issues just talking to people. I got over my fears on that its just after that... im stuck when im not in a gay place.