We've been broken up for over a year yet lately we've been seeing each other more. We went movie hopping today and spent 4 and a half hours in dark crowd less theaters. I deliberately tried to keep my distance from her which caused her to initiate alot of kino. at first it was subtle just teasing me and touching me, then it became more affectionate. There was flirting none stop the entire night. But aside from touching each other EVERYWHERE, nothing else happened. If she were any other girl the message would be crystal clear, but last time this exact pattern happened she pushed me away when I went for the kiss. I don't understand what she's trying to do to me. I feel like I should abandon ship but something keeps pulling me back in. Any advice on how to either beat her at her game or cut her off from playing it all together?

PW

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"Leave her better then you found her." - The @ Way

Do you want her back?

Do you have other women you are interested in right now?

Ask yourself this: Would you be giving this girl a second thought if you had other options?

If you go out and meet other women, while still in contact with her, she will see that you are a man in high demand. At this point, she will either cut things off with you (which i doubt) or she will work harder for your affection. If you do not want her to do the same thing as before you have to play hard to get. Tease her, get her sexually worked up, and then cut it off. The moment you give into her she knows she has you and she becomes bored with you. Women can often times be more attracted to the game than the actual guy.

Be more of a challenge for this girl. The bigger the challenger the bigger the reward.

Good luck bro
CK

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success is my only mother fucking option, failure is not.

Thats a good idea, thanks for the advice. I couldn't care less about her when she isn't around. It's only when I'm with her that I have the urge to hop on that. The reason she's so forward probably IS the fact that I have a bunch of other women lined up. But I do make it pretty easy for her so I'm gonna follow up on what you said and start playing hard to get. Either it works out or it doesn't, I'm happy either way.


PW

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"Leave her better then you found her." - The @ Way

Dude I thought you got over her already...
Why are you still hanging out with her? I got over "S" EASILY because I almost never hung out with her after the third time we broke up

She texted me all the time, too, and IMed me whenever she had the chance (notice how I'm not on AIM so much anymore?) but I always cut shit off by messing with her lol. One time I just kept texting her something to the effect of "your mom" whenever she texted me.

Sometimes, absence makes the heart grow fonder. With enough absence, though, the heart can forget... as long as you've got other women lined up. Just get out of Palo Alto cuz we both know the quantity of quality around these parts XD