I'm new to the forum, but not new to the pick-up game. However i have a predicament.


I have been nuts about a girl for ages, tried chatting her up a few times in clubs got a reasonable response- but never sealed the deal and got the numbers.

She works in a hairdressers in my city. I know the obvious answer is that i just stroll in, get an appointment and work it. However, a few of my friends work in the same place and they know how funky i think she is- it will be obvious that i have came to see her- which is certain to freak her out.

I'm a confident self-assured young man, with 3/4 girls at the mo. However as in the words of an anchorman "shes an ice queen"..i may just freeze.

How would you playboys work it, what set would you bring?

If you've tried chatting her up on a number of occasions already and failed then coming up with new methods to do so just isn't gonna cut it. You have other girls on the go, so make sure that she sees you with them. When she sees that you are preselected by other women it will spark curiosity in her and the next time you speak to her, don't show that you're interested in her anymore and it'll drive her crazy. In short, stop chasing her and make her chase you instead.