thought i'd start with the usually jazz and say hi i'm new

but anyway, to my problem...

boy meets girl, boy likes girl, girl (by what boy understands) likes boy
if you're with me so far...

so i don't see this girl very often at all! to the point that the only way i can really get to "talk/contact" her is through the use of facebook or at least this is waht i want to do.

firstly i know her name and she knows mine but i got her second name from somewhere else nd so would adding her as a friend of facebook seem stalkerish? or just more of the deal that i'm trying to contact her

also if she were add me back and i'm 99.9% sure she will what would be the best thing to say??

would really appreciate the help guys! thanks

hmm... I'm not Master PUA but can i offer you my two cents.

First, do you see her regularly.. class.. work.. anything

Secondly, give us a little more detail regarding your relationship with said girl.

If you answered the first point with something like work, or school then i think you should hold of on the facebook and just work your game in person.

If you don't see her at work, school or somewhere like that then i see no reason why you cannot, and should not, add this broad to facebook.. I mean it is the social utility of the day.

When adding her, send her a msg ( i think you can do that when sending an add request) and remark on something the two of you discussed.. something funny, neg like-ish.. This will make her smile and recall how much she adores you, or so we hope..

Regards mate and good hunting,

A

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thanks for the reply!

i go to university and she is on the same course as me but the year below! this is how we became to first meet through a course night out but this was before xmas!!! and i've only seen her a couple of times since as timetables are completely different! the times i hav seen her both have said hi, smiled and eye contact
but she seems shy as the one and only time i have had a proper chat with her she seem to get embarrassed and coy which i did take the chance to act C&F

no idea when i will see her next could be weeks! especially as i now hav a week off anyway! so i'm liking addig a little msg with the request! as i can send something funny with and neg-ish with it! but how about after that

i ask as usually i don't care a great deal and go with whatever happens but there is something about this one i really like and would like something to happen so don't wanna mess things up!

i appreciate the advice

Just message her. Mention the "People you May Know" box on your homepage. Go with what they said above after that and if she is interested she will add YOU.