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 Post subject: checked the place
PostPosted: Thu Sep 20, 2012 1:11 am 
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I just come from Klubb Onsdags... it sucked big time...mostly guys and people with no style. Me and my WM left after drinking 1 beer and planning the strategy for the next club.
The idea was Cafe Opera, one of the places with most HB in the city. But since it was Wednesday we chose EAST because is for free and there was not that many people out.
I like this club because I get to practice a lot, and is not so pricy thus you don't pay entrance and you can talk even in the bar without loosing your vocal chords.

The only think I could to was opening a 5 SET and win over everyone, get attention, power, Kino... you can read it all here here-vp702743.html#702743


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 Post subject: creepy, too direct
PostPosted: Thu Sep 20, 2012 7:31 am 
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was just thinking around about different ways to open in my day game and just thought something quick that i think can work on buses and trains.

you arrive at the bus/train and take a seat (anywhere) look for a HB and when you finally find one walk over to her and sit down next to her and say:

Me: Hey
HB: Hi

Me: I was just sitting over there listening to music and I happen to see you over here and I thought...hm she is cute...but then I figured that most of the girls now days are pretty cute so I just came over to ask you what separates you from the rest of them?

The idea is to make the HB justify her self to you that she is good enough for you

Have only used premade openers before plus I am quite new to the whole pua thing and this is the first thing i came up with...do you guys think it could work?
dude that´s way too direct and creepy...they won´t buy
check this one I did in 3 min Number-close
here-vp702829.html#702829


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Me: I was just sitting over there listening to music and I happen to see you over here and I thought...hm she is cute...but then I figured that most of the girls now days are pretty cute so I just came over to ask you what separates you from the rest of them?
Know this is a great line, used it loads of time!
But I find it easier to use when the attraction is build, and when you have isolated the target for some quality time, this line have to come out of the blue, that is when it works best, and you have to been talking about stuff already. This line makes you stand out from all of the other guys, it makes you seem picky, hard to get an that you know what you want.

You kind of went the wierd & creepy way with that line. Its like you are the poetic guy that listens to music and just happen to see her, and from know where you wonder who she is. This line is used to create a vision in HB's heads.

I say: "So since im spending my time with you, its obvious that I think you're cute and interesting, but thats pretty common these days so I cant help but wonder whats seperates you from the rest of the girls? What are you're top qualities?"

1. You're giving her YOUR time, not the other way around.
2. You compliment her on being cute and interesting.
3. You kind of neg her, because thats not good enough for you.
4. Make her understand why thats not good enough for you. You're a ladies man!
5. Still shows interest in getting to know her.
6. Shows that you have alot of balls for being so straight forward. [/quote]

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 Post subject: PURE for a quick sarge
PostPosted: Fri Sep 21, 2012 9:00 am 
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I´m on the guest list to PURE both Fri and Sat.
I´m planning to go solo for a quick sarge since I have other plans in parallel.
Let me know if anyone wants to do a speed sarge with me.
maybe you Kabi? PM for phone number


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Hey man im working this weekend :(

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Okay guys, so since we all will probably meet, and become good friends,
I would want us to start helping eachother out. I want a list of things to talk
about with women, funny things, serious things, goofy things, naughty things, bad things, good things etc.
It is good for all of you, and good for myself.

Im having this amazing date with a girl I f-closed.
She got freespots at a hotel in stockholm city, and she wants me to join her.
I dont know why she choose me, im gonna find that out. But that puts me in a
good spot, she likes me. She could have chosen anyone of her best friends, her sister, her mom. But she chose me, in my mind: That puts me in a spot again because she's looking for something romantic.

Our plan:
- Dinner
- Movie
- Drinks
- Fuck
- Wake up
- Breakfast
- Go home

She is looking for a good time, and the reason she chose me is because I can make sure that happens, im that kind of guy, I can be romantic to, but thats not the gameplan im going for until we hit the bed, we will both feel it in the air and we will be nervous. Why? Is because we have never met like this to go on a "date".

- First time we met, at her party, she invited me, I kiss closed, and fucked closed later that night.
- The weekend after that, we decided to meet up again, we were at her friends house and chilled, took the bus to her place and banged.
- After that she wanted to brake up what we were doing,she was not interested, so I said fine.
- We didn't talk for 2 weeks, and she just got home from france so I asked her how it was in france, and teased her a little bit.
- Then we small talked some days, I was being evil, teasing her alot, making fun of her, really pushing it, and then I switched and decided to be nice, gentleman,talking but still teasing a little bit, so we got along, we met up again last week, and I f-closed.
- Now she wants to have a romantic night.

Anyway thats the background story to it, I can honestly say that my game is solid, but now I lost my vision (maybe because im nervous/maybe because I put to much effort and value on this date).

I want you to imagine you're sitting at a diner/having a drink with a HB9, and you have to talk about interesting stuff, funny stuff, and make this into a good time.

- Interesting things
- Funny things
- Quizez
- Riddles / brain teasers
- Bad things
- Good things
- Naughty things
- Serious things

You get the point, I will also share some of conversation tips later on :)

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 Post subject: the romantic date
PostPosted: Fri Sep 21, 2012 4:07 pm 
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this is gonna be a real shit test all night.
You guys had sex sevral times so the game goes to a different level now:
how to keep the "let's be a couple" possibility away, while keep close enough to have sex and intimate, kind of KK (fuck buddies in swedish right? :D ).

Controlling everything here is a real challenge and personally this should flow naturally. Nevertheless you can model yourself to get this natural response. You shape your personality over the years.
Sure she'll ask you lots of personal questions about family, friends, values, relationships, etc...most important she'll give you test to your values and morality and to check if you are sure and solid in your answers and arguments. Don't change your answer if she says that she's very cultural open and you agree and give an example to validate ... and the minute after she says that she doesn't like the immigrants that get money from the state and don't work... don't fall in those traps and remember to switch topic when the thing doesn't go right... do it smoothly ... like if nothing matters of that previous topic.

about the topics... this has to be personal.
I'm gonna recommend everyone an obligated reading. I found out this week and takes a short time to read but you'll wanna keep it among your valuable reading material http://www.bretrodgers.com/wp-content/u ... fpower.pdf

finally to say... is how you say it more than what you say. Be passionate. Watch some Ted.com or the teasers from Apple for their new products to get the emphasis on how things are "exciting" "most amazing" "incredible" "fantastic"...

//MyOwnRockStar


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Give me a PM if you need a wing in Sthlm. Looking for a wing that's over 24. Myself is 28 and like hitting on girls 25+ mostly, so if you're in to that, just give me a text!


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 Post subject: Re: the romantic date
PostPosted: Sat Sep 22, 2012 2:37 pm 
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this is gonna be a real shit test all night.
You guys had sex sevral times so the game goes to a different level now:
how to keep the "let's be a couple" possibility away, while keep close enough to have sex and intimate, kind of KK (fuck buddies in swedish right? :D ).

Controlling everything here is a real challenge and personally this should flow naturally. Nevertheless you can model yourself to get this natural response. You shape your personality over the years.
Sure she'll ask you lots of personal questions about family, friends, values, relationships, etc...most important she'll give you test to your values and morality and to check if you are sure and solid in your answers and arguments. Don't change your answer if she says that she's very cultural open and you agree and give an example to validate ... and the minute after she says that she doesn't like the immigrants that get money from the state and don't work... don't fall in those traps and remember to switch topic when the thing doesn't go right... do it smoothly ... like if nothing matters of that previous topic.

about the topics... this has to be personal.
I'm gonna recommend everyone an obligated reading. I found out this week and takes a short time to read but you'll wanna keep it among your valuable reading material http://www.bretrodgers.com/wp-content/u ... fpower.pdf

finally to say... is how you say it more than what you say. Be passionate. Watch some Ted.com or the teasers from Apple for their new products to get the emphasis on how things are "exciting" "most amazing" "incredible" "fantastic"...

//MyOwnRockStar
Thats the things man, I've managed to do just that, keeping the "lets be a couple" scenario away, and just having a good time and enjoying eachothers company, and just by being myself.

I have never doubted my game or myself until now, so I think its stupid of me to even start doubting myself, seriously, i've already banged her 3 times and that already creates a special bond, a certain kind of trust and she is comfortable with me, or else she wouldn't invite me. Its kind of stupid to overthink about stupid stuff, Like what I was thinking about "why did she chose me? what does she want out of this?", now im like, why the fuck did I think like that, im not a psychic! :D Im just curious about what this is, and need to know what this is so I can stabilise where this is going, and try to direct it where I want.

Shit tests doesnt work on me, I dont react to it. Its the best way, you can also tease her about what she said/did to shit test you, I do that, and then they feel very stupid. Its fun :)

Thanks for the book, im gonna read it, it seems like great knowledge!

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Most people are just talkers, all they got is talk, but when all said is done it's the doers who change this world.


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 Post subject: Re: the romantic date
PostPosted: Sat Sep 22, 2012 4:58 pm 
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you can also tease her about what she said/did to shit test you, I do that, and then they feel very stupid. Its fun :)
totally agree, this is such a powerful display of self control
Out of the topic, just wanted to share how by catching the "doggy dinner bowl look" is the definitive IOI..or the next... I love this phrase because when you see it you really know they totally fancy you


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 Post subject: Re: the romantic date
PostPosted: Sun Sep 23, 2012 3:45 pm 
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"doggy dinner bowl look"
Its a great IOI, but I always see it as a good start and a way of her showing how she is, girls who is comfortable with themselves are often fun girls to hang out with and the interesting ones too, and that puppy eyes look is also a funny thing to tease her about, like "Do you always get what you want with those puppy eyes?".

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Most people are just talkers, all they got is talk, but when all said is done it's the doers who change this world.


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Hey guys been out of action for awhile but I good to go and glad some one started a lair great idea! When is the next meet up? I have a big weekend planned this weekend but would be keen maybe one night next week.


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 Post subject: wednesday out
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dudes,
I'm going out to Hell's Kitchen on Wednesday. There's a rock concert there and I know a lot of people. That environment has lots of dirty rock girls and it's easy to sarge, though is not like everygirl is a HB. Anyways, I'm a rock dude and I'll go sarge around, taking advantage of the entrance to the club.

I'm also in need of a wingman for this weekend. I'm alternating my weekends with natural game and PUA game to see what's more effective.

I also need a companion to evaluate my daygame. I have great openers of my own and some follow up game, but it's always good to have a "camera eye" to tell me what I do cool and not so cool...and viceversa, I give very good analytical feedback.

not for newbies :)


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This may come with a short notice ! But those cruises we talk about in here ! Well they're on every wedsneday ! im goin on one this week so if anyone wanna join PM me :)

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I can evaluate you on your day game Rockstar, im not a day game guy but maybe can try it out!

Its 6 weeks left until the great cruise, 31 oktober, good djs and loads of people will come! Its the best cruise of the year so far!

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