If there is anybody in the San Diego area from Chula Vista as far North as San Marcos area, that wants to meet up and go out have a good time and talk to some beautiful women in the process PM me.

Here are some guidelines/rules that will be conducive to us actually having a good group. I am not saying these are prerequisites, cause I am more than willing to work with you and the other members will be too.

1. Have a life outside of "Game." I am tired of going out with guys that only talk about game and don't actually put it to use. There is a time and a place for "Game Talk," the bar/nightclub is not the place (unless we are giving each other a quick pointer or tip). If you have not noticed yet the people who have the most fun and can make a fool of themselves are the ones that have the most success, and more importantly enjoy their lives and nights out.

2. There is no hierarchy or pecking order. None of this weird alpha male of group type of crap. Sure each one of us will have our strengths and weaknesses that will help come into play whenever we go out but that does not mean I am better than you and visa verca. I know there is a lot of Mystery fans out here, but I will be the first to disagree with the notion that you must be a "Tribal Leader" to pick up women. I like the idea that we are all "Tribal Leaders" in the group. I have been in groups where I am both the on the top and the bottom of the group, and let me tell you it is always messy (insert crude innuendos here, pause for laughter...).

3. NO PUA JARGON. "I was getting mad IOIs from that HB8. However, I was not in the right state to open and it was a mixed set. I should have opened then DHV'd and neg'd her but I DLV'd and PCD'd while I FCF'd and AMOG'd." To be honest all I heard was "I have spent way too much time trying to figure out how to say I got blown out as opposed to figuring out how I can talk to people like a natural (not normal), fun, energetic, human-being." Plus, PUA jargon is just fucking weird.

4. Reference Paragraph 1. Have a life outside of "Game." Yes, I am hitting this again because it is so important. I want to meet and go out with people that have a life outside of "Game." What things make you interesting? Example, I ride motorcycles, skydive, rock climb, and travel around the world for a living. I have been to more countries than I have been to states...oh and I used to teach underprivileged kids how to box to keep them off the streets and help get them out of hardcore gangs. The underlying factor here is, if we are not comfortable with each other, can't get along, don't find each other legitimately funny or interesting, then the people we are talking to won't.

5. Have a sense of style. No purple boas, top hats, crazy goggles, etc. I am not saying you have to wear a three piece suit, just look in the mirror and ask yourself would I, as in yourself, who you are, what defines you truly wear something like this? I have a more rugged/classy motorcyclist style (think Hank Moody mixed with James Dean or Steve McQueen) and a more refined preppy but a little on the edgy side style. It would be weird for me to show up with an affliction t-shirt or skinny jeans. 5.a. NO AFFLICTION SHIRTS. Do you get what I am saying? If you are comfortable in your own clothes and your clothes are congruent with who you are, things will be much easier for you.

6. LET"S HAVE SOME FUN. If we are not thoroughly having fun, meeting new people, raising hell, causing problems for people, and getting away with things most people don't then we are no longer truly living.

I know a lot of this might seem like it is going against the proverbial grain, but that is what interests people and life is just more fun that way. I will say this, I am new to the SD area and have already met a lot of great people and made some awesome connections but I want to find a good group of people to go out with here. I just moved from Washington DC where I had one of the best groups of friends you could want and now I want to build that up over here in SD.

I am sure we will come up with some more guidelines later but right now we need people for this monster to eat. Imagine a snowball rolling down a mountain. It may be small now but once it gets going it gets bigger and faster. It is time you stop messing around and get serious about not being serious. It is time you reclaim the manhood and friendships you always wanted. Meet and sleep with beautiful women, marry a couple if you want. It is time you stopped looking at that group from a far and start finding yourself in those groups. It is time for you to return to work or school on that dreaded Monday and tell them the story of how you tormented that one girl until she was begging you to leave with her or how you tricked an entire nightclub into thinking your actual name was Tommy Daniels a semi-pro motorcycle racer sponsored by Red Bull (long story behind this one if you want to know send me a PM). You can be an asshole. Just don't be a boring asshole. This could be the moment that changes your life. CAN I GET AN AMEN OR AT LEAST A SLOW CLAP?!?!?!?!

If you are interested type a message below (that way it will stay at the top for more San Diegan's to see) and send me a PM.

-Lee