Hey I just want some peoples opinion on something (not an opener).
I have a LTR with a girl and I get a lot of offers from other girls. Do you think I should take them up or be faithfull? If I was to do it I wouldn't tell her. Do you think this is wrong?

What do other Puas do in this situation?

I'd like to hear all the different responses they would be much appretiated.

Thanks

Rob

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The fact that you are posting this means that you want us to say go for it. So I am going to say go for it. Be prepared for her to find out even if she doesn't. Somehow they always find out if it is a LTR. Unless of course you have a lot of experience in juggling multiple chicks.

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Why do you care what we think?

Do you think it's wrong to lie and cheat on your girlfriend behind her back when you agreed to be faithful?

I've cheated enough times to know it's never worth it.

Well, the weak cheat.

Also, the whole bunch of lies that you'll have to be coming up with to cover your tracks? Good luck with that.

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I've ran a couple of girl at a time and it's always difficult. If yu can handle all the questions and weaving in and out of stuff then go for it.

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it's wrong and hurtful.

leave them better than you found them.

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Amen!

If you're going to be with other women, be honest about it. Cheating in a relationship that's supposed to be monogamous is for scumbags.

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Don't do it. Oddly enough, the decent, real men in pickup won't tell you to cheat.

Imonce read that a big rein girls give head is because ( subconsciously) they are tasting smelling and looking for taxes of other women...
I thought it was interesting haha maybe if you do you shouldn't let ur lyr give u head

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I have a LTR with a girl and I get a lot of offers from other girls. Do you think I should take them up or be faithfull? If I was to do it I wouldn't tell her. Do you think this is wrong?

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yes it's wrong, duh! Cheating, lying, deception, manipulation blah blah blah, where do you get the idea that will be ok and that you won't pay the price?

All you have to say is, "I really like you and enjoy spending time with you but I am not ready for any long term commitment at this time. We can continue to go out and have fun together and be in each other's lives but I no longer wish to be exclusive."

She will then cry and say it's over and she will tell you all the men that are asking her out and that she is going to go out and fuck them. All you have to say is, " we are all consenting adults and you have the right to do what you want to do. I just don't want to know about it."

She will then stomp off and say it's over and you won't hear from her for a couple days....then she will turn back up and fuck you senseless. This pattern is field tested and proven time and time again.

Now the down side is after having a few wild rolls in the hay, she will want to "know where things stand." Again just simply state that you are dating and that you don't wish to be exclusive.

Don't argue, dont fight and don't justify it. Just do it.

She will continue to see you untill something better comes along for her in which case she will continue to see you on the down-low. Or untill something better comes along for you and you break it off with her to be exclusive with the other person.

The reason you want to cheat is so that you will have your cake and eat it too. You want her to be all lovey-dovey and think that you have this wonderfull relationship and treat you well and you want her to be faithfull to you while you fuck others.

The problem is she will find out real soon that you are cheating and then she WILL hate you and be bitter and will make your life hell and for just cause.

The other chicks that you will be banging will turn nasty and bitter in short order too because they assume you will be dumping her. Some will even sabotage your relationship or will somehow spill the beans on what you are doing.

When you are upfront that are not exclusive you take away all their power. Your GF will be hurt and bitter and will say that she is going to fuck everyone in town but it will only last a few days and then she will be back.

Don't get me wrong, your relationship WILL change and her demeanor towards you WILL change but in the long run it will be better than cheating.

There is a trade off in benifits for having an exclusive relationship vs having freedom to do what you want and that has been going since the beginning of man.

You have to decide what means more to you, having freedom and options or having the safety and security of a LTR. With cheating, in the end you end up with neither.

yes it's wrong, duh! Cheating, lying, deception, manipulation blah blah blah

Aren't we all doing this by using this underground circle of people, passing around new techniques, gambits and other ways to get her to fall in love with you?

So many people so quick to judge with out looking in the mirror.
After reading all this I have ended it with the girl. I am too tempted so instead of hurting her like you say i will i have been honest and said i don't think i can be faithfull and I don't want to let you down. She is still hurt from that.
People will say i shouldn't have put it like that but I was being HONEST!

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People here are sharing "techniques, gambits" etc on what women typically find attractive and desirable. Whether they or anyone falls in love is up to Mother Nature.

You were asking about cheating without her knowledge - most people find that distastefull and it is distastefull because it is hurtfull, deceptive, destructive and just generally scummy.

If you do not want to be exclusive with someone and want to keep your options open that is 100% fair and acceptable...as long as you are upfront and honest about it and aren't pulling the wool over anyone's eyes.

As I said in my previous posts, you do not have to "dump" or break up with her as opposed to just being honest that you do not wish to have an exclusive relationship.

She will initially take that as a dumping and will cry and threaten to fuck everyone in town and will have a period of bitterness. But if you continue to be the same guy that you were and treat her the same as you did before and take her out and have fun she may continue to see you and fuck you.

...and maybe she won't, but that is the risk you take when you choose freedom and options over exclusivity.

Cheating in a monogamous relationship is for lamers and weak people. I wouldn't put up with a woman who did and remember what goes around comes around.