HOW DO I RESPOND TO THIS...

HER: "I wanted to ask you: I think I get it... I am your challenge, right? You want to see if you can capture me?"

Been talking to this girl, but she is reluctant to be with a guy because she's got screwed over in her last relationship. She is very disinterested in dating, but she continues to talk to me because we have a lot in common and fun... BUT she says she doesn't understand why I still want to talk to her even though she is not interested. Now she thinks that I'm only interested and not giving up because I am challenged by her (see above statement).

Now what am I supposed to say to that? I think I'm supposed to somehow flip it around back to her, right? Any ideas?

Thanks!

"haha yes, im challenged to see how long i can keep you off of me" is the first one that comes to mind, there might be some flaws with it but if noone else responds you have a backup It's her job to be challenged to get you, remind her of that its not your job to go after a challenge

I'm not sure if the wording is right on that, but I'm definitely thinking something along those lines... How about "the real challenge is keeping you from wanting me too much"

Actually, be indignant that she considers herself that, and that you're not amused by this..

"What is this? You're not some animal I have to hunt. Or some score I have to mark in my book somewhere. Or some notch on my bedpost. I'm attracted to you and I have been honest about it. Now, you don't have to rationalise that in ways you yourself see fit ,Okay? Don't tell me what you are for me. 'Cause you don't *know*."

That should see to it, that she doesn't question you regarding this ever again and that you're your own man. This is a test for for you, blow her away with selective honesty. It always works.

Good luck.

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