I think it's happened to all of us. You're in a loud room, maybe a party with tons of people screaming and really loud music. You want to get somebody's attention, so you yell their name, but they don't hear you. You keep trying to get their attention, and they don't hear you. Sometimes the other person is talking to somebody else and ignores you.

It's kind of embarrassing, because eventually you just have to give up and pretend you never tried to get their attention in the first place.

So, how do YOU get somebody's attention in a loud, crowded room?

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Is there something preventing you from just walking over to them?

body language does leaps and bounds here, it shows your intention well before any words are even spoken. I tend to use my eyes a lot, ill do a quick scan of the room and see if there are any takers. Any women i catch looking at me i sly smile and "attempt to look away" before going back so she "catches" me looking at her. Then i just go into the situation and do my thing.

just a week or so back i was in a crowded bar/lounge area just sitting down with a few friends enjoying ourselves. I see this cute petite blonde coming upstairs with her friends. I saw her glance my way and i just looked at her pointed and told her to come over. Needless to say introductions were made, phone numbers were exchanged and everyone had a great time.

Communication in party scenes isnt always ideal.
On the one hand girls are usually there to meet guys but on the other hand I always feel like a fool when I constantly have to yell and say what are you saying? Its a numbers game bro. I can tell you you should always have a wingman that thinks exactly like you and is able to raise your social value, and you should dress extremely well. A tip being picking classy shoes. I notice women respond very well to a man that has good shoes on. Shoes that a rich businessman would wear. And believe me they will notice it. I see women will look bluntly at me from my head to my toes. Im a black guy and white women dont always like that. They will look at my face and be like "ugh.. I dont know there are prettier white guys around here, so thats a safer pick" but then I will notice them looking at my shirt, my pants and my shoes and show interest. My uncle taught me to always have a nice pair of shoes on and I really noticed a difference. Keep a bit of scruff, it looks more manly( you should be a man not a boy) and just approach the girl and tell her you like her style. If she doesnt respond positively, then well it was never meant to be. Dont take it personal, its really a numbers game. And on the contrary to what some of the pickup gurus say I think parties/clubs/loud places women go to are the best places to do your pickup because the SPAM is created for men and women to meet each other.

Have you ever been to a frathouse? Beer and cigarette butts generally cover the floor, your feet get stepped on every two minutes, NEVER wear nice shoes to the house party. The bar? Yes. The club? Yes. Those are two environments where cleanliness is very important to being successful.

Anyways, odds are you will never get a girls attention at a house party without a bullhorn. You need to actually walk over and get right next to her. That was your goal, anyways, so just speed up the process and go there yourself.