Hi there, I have this problem I thought you could help me with, I have a girlfriend for the last 2 years but things are really coming to an end. I havent seen her in 2 and a half weeks and she is working away and we dont even have sex anymore, its just dead in the water.I met this other girl a few months ago and we get on so well and theres def physical attraction there and we are good friends. Shes so popular though cos shes so hot and there are loads of guys calling her asking her out all of the time. The other week I kissed her and then we went out this week and it happened again.She knows I have a girlfriend and I told her that I didnt want to go on fooling around with her unless she thought we had a future because it makes me feel really guilty about my girlfriend. But she told me she doesnt want a relationship with anyone and that she didnt want to be the reason i broke up with my girlfriend especially since we're friends and i've talked to her about the problems in my relationship. So I dont dont know what to do now, I am breaking up with my gf this week because that just isnt going to work out. I know what I've done is wrong and I swear I wont do it again. But is there anyway i can change this girls mind?

if this girl is getting so much attention, she's really use to it and she needs it! if you want her to be interested in you need to be the one guy that is not "falling" for her. After you break up with your girlfriend, invite her over to your place, get a bottle of wine, watch tv, then fuck her brains out. About 30min to an hour later (if she/you are not ready for another round), find an excuse for her to leave. you can say that you have a game of football planned if it is day time or that you have an early morning next day..something like that. When she leaves don't call her until she calls you. If you can wait until she asks to meet up again, that will be good, but you'll have to make a judgement call depending on the situation. If she isn't the one that asked you to do something, invite her over again and repeat the above. dont forget girls find it very hard to separate sex from emotions, most of them at least, so thats an easy way to get them attached.