Right now the game is working wonders. I have gone on 5 different dates with pickups. This has happened in the past 2 weeks. I want to know when do you guys go in for the kill for the second date? What is your approach? Call? Text? Email? Facebook? When do you approach? The first day? Second day? Week? What do you do? general convo ending with hey can I see you such and such day? I hope you get the picture because I am curious

My example on what I do
text or phone call
(really have to do away with texting so much, its very impersonable and allows the woman to have a higher fail rate)

this is the one I just tried today

30 mins after first date the text reads

Sleazy: So this is the part where I check in to make sure you made it home safe and you tell me that you did make it home and also to tell me how good of a time you had and that you cannot wait untill the next time soooooo did you make it home safe? =)
girl: LOL you are awfully full of yourself and yes I am home safe and I had a great time! I hope I didn't talk your ear off!
Sleazy: Far from it, I enjoyed your "stories" it was a good time so when will the pleasure be of seeing you again? lol is that a little better for ya :p
girl: lol I had a good time to

......she is engaged what can I say? other than fail but your input will be appreciated guys! Thanks!

What kind of dates are you going on? Where do you take them? Did you kiss/fuck them on the first date? How much interest are they showing. Generally I'd just not bring up a second date until she does. Appear busy!

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I would have arranged the second date on the first date. But since that chance is gone, you're texts were ok.

You are really overthinking this dude. Just ask her out again.

Text her or call her and say "Hey, what's your schedule like for the next few days?"

OR "I have this fun idea of something I wanna do. I want you to come"

Either way is fine. If shes already into you, you don't need any special way of asking her out.

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I think there is a whole section in the forum dedicated to "Day 2s" and the like, you might want to check in on that.

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Call. Text is for little children.

Say hi, reference something from your first meeting, like bringing back a nick name you used on her or something like that.

Go into an interesting story of something that happened to you today.

Tell her "I'm busy on X, and on Y I have ZZZ, but are you free on MONDAY? (or some other WEEK DAY, you are too busy on weekends for chicks you just met).

Set a date.

Then go read threads about date planning etc.

awesome thank you I will definitely check that out!

Thats exactly what I do. Except for the whole busy on weekend thing. I like that. Shows dhv like I am booked on weekends with my busy life. learned something here from you. This reply is exactly what I was looking for. We all have our strategies and techniques we do. I was looking for something that could possibly develop better game and share what I do that may help someone else. The reason I posted is not pressed on the situation from yesterday but just give an account of what happened and how it played out. What I did good and what could improve. Also to learn something from someone else to try tomorrow night. Thats why I am here to help and to learn myself. Thanks guys for your replies!

UPDATE

Last night and today she has called me. She contacted me both days. Its a weird situation shes engaged and not happy. This only equals drama if you ask me I do not need that but at the same will not sneeze at a oppurtunity when its beating down my door.