I just had to throw in my take on a huge portion of the questions newer guys post in this forum. A lot of guys will show us portions of conversations had in person, text messages, etc. between them and a girl they are interested in and ask how to respond to a certain question.

That's not bad, after all if you're new you don't know. The issue I want to bring up is that a lot of guys want to be told, word for word, what response will bring the best reaction. That's not everybody, I realize, but quite often if somebody gives them advice just by saying well here's what you want to convey to the girl, the man asking will continue to pick apart their conversation and want a script. There are two problems with this. One is that if you analyze every word and sentence trying to discern whether it raises or lowers value, seems to needy or doesn't convey ENOUGH interest, and if you try to analyze everything you will go nuts. You won't accomplish anything trying to make flow charts for value. The second is that very little of our communication is in the words we say. Tone and Body language are far more important, and they are usually the difference between coming off as confident and awesome as opposed to creepy. You are better off, in my opinion, asking for what feeling you want to convey and what your general idea should be when asking for that text response so that you can learn faster that what you say matters far less than how you say it.

Maybe I'm nitpicking, but does anyone else feel this way?