Okay, I just got back in contact with a girl who I never fucked. I wrote a previous thread about this girl. A lot of my friends have fucked her, but I always thought of her as a little sister. We lost touch on bad terms, but we have recently moved to the same area. She is about an hour away. She's used to offer me handjobs etc., but I think she's a little psycho. Here's how the texting has gone so far. First, I know I have texted too long without escalating I think and have not really turned it sexual yet. Some of the game at the end sucks too. I know my text game is bad. I want any opinions about how to proceed and what to do this weekend. I recently went abroad over the summer, and I sent out a group text and she responded with the first text, and then I didn't respond until I got back about two months later.
Her: Holy shit.........(my name)!!!!!!! June 10
Me: Long time, no see. August 22 2:28 PM
Her: (my name) are you seriously in (state we're in)? 3:18 PM
Me: Just arrived back in the U.S. and leased a loft right in the middle of XXXXXXX. Life's weird, huh neighbor?
Her: So crazy. How far is (my town) from (her town) 3:32 PM
Me: Close enough
Her: When are you coming to visit me?
Me: Is that an invitation?
Her: More like a demand
Me: That's the xxxxxx I know.
Me: Let me know your plans. 3:49 PM
Her: I have none. I've only been here a week and only know my derelict neighbors and nerds from class.
Me: I'm not like them. 4:00 PM
Her: Yes that's why you need to come visit. I'm bored.
Me: I have an orientation dinner this week with some PhD candidates, but let's talk. I'm sure there's a lot to catch up on right?
Me: Is your truck here?
Her: I got a new one. Big diesel.
Me: I've got to feel things out in my program this week before I leave, but you are welcome to come down here. What is your schedule looking like?
Her: I'm in class everyday from 8-4.
Me: Wow. Full time job. You will have weekends free? 4:33 PM
Her: Weekends off! 5:39 PM
Me: I hope you're ready.
Her: Lol. IDK. It's been a long time. It will be an epic reunion. I'm sure we'll both end up in jail. 6:05 PM
Me: Have you calmed down? I still like girls with a little crazy in them? 6:33 PM
Her: Still bat shit 7:24 PM
Me: Save up. We're gonna put that to real good use. 8:08 PM
Her: xxxxxx I miss you!!!!!!!
Me: How did I know?
Her: Because you miss me
Me: Is that a question or a statement? ;^)
Her: A statement of course. I don't ask questions. 8:32 PM
Me: Are you trying to tell me you're marriage material? We just reconnected. Slow down.
Her: I will never be marriage material. Lol. 9:05 PM
Her: But, we do need to catch up. I've got quality (xxxxxx guy she used to fuck who I also had a falling out with) stories. We don't speak anymore.
Me: Who is xxxxxxx?
Her: Lol
Me: I know it's kinda funny. 9:15 PM
Her: When are you coming to visit? 10:21 PM
Me: See. You do ask questions. What are you doing the weekend of the 8th?
Her: I should not have to wait that long, sir. 10:30 PM
Me: That's our first home football game down here if you're interested. Otherwise I will have to see about this weekend. Why didn't you contact me before now?
Her: Okay. I'm coming. Get me a ticket.
Her: And, IDK. Because I thought you still hated me.
Me: I don't hate anyone. We'll talk about this later. Hold on.
Her: What's later? And, why?
Me: I mean I'm writing a text about football tickets. One sec
Me: It might be a problem. I will have to find a student that wants to give up their ticket and then transfer it to you. Nothing is impossible though. If this weekend doesn't workout for
coming up there I definitely want you to come to some games. The Cotton Bowl is in Dallas on the 8th. You know what kind of hell raising time that is right? We might be able to
stay at our ranch. 10:48 PM
Her: I can't just pick up and go out to Dallas. 11:03 PM
Me: Ha! Surely you jest. It's not Miami.
Her: What sir? 11:15 PM
Me: I like this "sir" business. I mean Dallas is not as far as say Miami for you. Play it by ear. Probably better to play now then when you get really busy with school.
Her: Where did you get Miami from? 11:42 PM
Me: It's a city in south Florida that's a long way from xxxxxxxxxx that fit my analogy. What's wrong with you silly?
Me: Let's talk soon.
Her: IDK. I'm drunk. 12:02 PM
Me: I knew it. I had a feeling. How drunk?
After that last night she didn't respond then I got awoken this morning by her text.
Her: So what are you doing at xxxxxx? Master's degree? 8:12 AM
Me: Yep. Master's. 9:13 AM
Me: .....and a little ass modeling.
Her: Lol. What are you doing this weekend? 10:02 AM
Me: Ummmmm. Hanging out with my wife and kids. What else could I do? 10:55 AM
Her: What's wrong with you?
I know some of this sucks, but I'm trying not commit to go and see her so soon and playing up challenge. I think she was fucking a guy in Miami, and thought I knew about it somehow. That's why she started acting paranoid. So, that brings us up until right now. I haven't responded. This texting is going on long enough. I'm not sure. I could be totally friend zoned. Hit me with how I proceed forward with this.
CHAT