Guys need some advice.

I met a girl in the gym last week Wednesday. I got her number. Thursday, I text her to ask if she fancied meeting up for a drink and something to eat. She was text back straight away yes sure.

We had some food in a resteraunt, good chat. End of the night she got taxi home, went to kiss her and she gave me her cheek. No full on kissing. 20 mins later, I get a text, "Hi just got home. Thank you for such a good time. I would definatly like to do this again x" so I left it there. Sunday I text her "Hi Kay, hows your weekend going" at 1.30pm in the afternoon, I get a reply around 11.30pm, "Hi just got back from Liverpool. Getting ready for work. How was yours", I replied "Great, I went out with a few mates and stayed at the Hilton in the city centre. Are you free Saturday?"

So, I got no reply. I went back to the gym yesterday around 9pm. I had a few beers with a friend before I arrived so I was feeling good. I gave her a call something like "Hey, how are you? I am at the gym, are you working out tonight?, she said yes, I will see you in half an hour.

So I was in the sauna, eventually she arrived, and I got in the swimming pool and I did what I thought you are supposed to do. I was using a cocky funny approach. Touched her on the shoulder as we talked, moved in closer, we could have kissed we were so close. Seemed to go great. Then she was complaining that her back her, I said let me help you with that, an offer to give her a massage. She said no I am okay, which I thought was strange. We swam a few lengths and then she said "about saturday, I cant make it, I am going camping with a few friends"

After than jacuzzi, in there we chatted about stuff. she starts complaining about her back again, I say are your I cant help, again no I am fine. Through the conversation we got onto talking about relationships and she was saying she always seems to attractive guys who are full of themselves which she doesnt like, wasnt sure if that was an indirect reference to me.

We went back to sauna, I then touched her lower thigh as I went out of sauna to get a shower. She didnt move away. Anyway, finally we were told by staff to leave as the gym was closing. I said should I meet you on the other side, she said no, I am going straight home, I am tired. Text me in the week.

What do you guys think, did I do anything wrong? I mean I gave her loads of eye contact, tried to look for IOIs. But she didnt seem to be taking the bait? More importantly do I forget about her now, or try something else?

Hey sounds like you, pulled off a great one, pulling girls in the gym always a favourite, of mine there always fit ....number close good start..

day to arranged for meet, nice meal somthing to eat (im guessing u paid), now if after all that she gives u a cheek theres 2 things...

1: u built to much comfort n she was unsure if u where gunna be a better friend than boyfriend at this point...." the cheek kiss should have been a greet at the start of the night in my opion she came back out she was interested "

2: u can refuse, be playful with it, stop yrself and go nah shouldnt really its been a good night dnt want to giv u the wrong idea...confuses her, or a playful wow if im gunna kiss u im gunna kiss u (laugh smile joke bout it), save that cheek for yr mum n roll off a bit...

other than this she is throwing a load of mixed signal, in the pool my back hurt (CAN I HELP!!!) what are u thinking we are passed the comfort stage you dont ask you now say, here i learnt something from an old friend and gental massage on the shoulders, if she then says no its cool i would have gone ok well im gunna chill in the sauna or jacuzzi lead her away make her relise ok i losted his interest a bit there he was jst trying to help....

at this point i think u have blown it all up, she sees u more as a mate, and is now uncomfortable that yr still trying to be more, hence she mentions the pain again hoping u will ask why and not offer to help (make u a friend zone) and she cancels the date cause she is going camping (something u cant chase or prove)...

can this be saved yea, go back to gym start chatting with another girl, .."do not text the first girl again again" wait for her to arrive she uses it enough it will happen eventually when she does, ask bout the weekend or something a very small convo then roll off with ill be in the pool later might cya there, go see the new girl or girl no.2 and talk to her for a few more minate (in eye shot of girl 1(yr target)) and then roll off her saying im moving to pool might cya later

OUT COME TO THIS:
1: girl one comes to meet u again wait for her to come to you, start chatting kino escalate QUICKER!!!, and say something ill ives held this off since we met and kiss her properly...

2: second girl (new girl) joins u GAME ON!!!! NEW FUN!!! lol...

3: both girls join u target knowns u have options likes you more...second girls see's u come preselected likes u more GAME ON!!!! hope this helps mate ...

thank you for playing

Well, she couldn't be any more clear in her rejection.

First, she gave you her cheek. Second, she made an excuse to avoid that Saturday meet. Finally, she refused your help with her back issue every single time.

She's just not comfortable enough with you. Neither is there any interest on her part.

Another thing, you keep asking her so many times.

Tell, not ask. Unless you start telling people about things instead of asking for permission, you are never going to get anywhere. In pick up or life.

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