alright guys

in the university i go to i have like 3-5 reaaly good buds i go out to sarge with and stuff. now i constantly have the problem and my buds too with our friend nicky. nicky is about 6'2 very handsome and has a very deep voice. when ever our friends or i bring girls back or take em away from parties our friend nick ALWAYS ends up gettting witht them. now see here is the problem, HE HAS 0 GAME. nothing nada. i remeber me isolating a girl once I talkedt to her the whole time etc etc and she ended up coming home with us but she choose nicky. another time my friend andy bought a few girls over and he was the one that got it in that night. see wat i dont understand is that he does not cockblock us. he doesnt go for the steal he never says anything he just stands there at bars like an average afc and doesnt do shit. now i like the guy really nice guy awsome guy but i dont understand why girls go to him besides his looks.

what can i do to gravitate the girls to me. i build attraction etc etc. but wtf man. anyways do u guys know anything i can do do get the girl for myself and not let her go towards him? i wont stop hanging out with him he is my friend but my friend andy agrees with me too he has noticed too. girls just choose him. he got very lame personality. btw im 5'6

Try telling him to not touch your girl even if she comes to him..that he should ignore her and walk away politely.. that's the only thing I can think about.. or don't hang out with him when you sarge :S

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You know why it happens?

It's because you worry about "what would Nicky do?" more than "what can I do?" when it comes to the girl. It's obvious you rate your friend higher than you.

Sort out your inner confidence and esteem issues.

If you're not the center of attention in your own world, there is a problem.

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" You're born alone and you die alone and this world just drops a bunch of rules on top of you to make you forget those facts. But I never forget. I'm living like there's no tomorrow, because there isn't one. "

You got an issue with your boy, plain and simple. If you didn't, you wouldn't be saying he has no game, he's an AFC, and he has a lame personality. That last one especially is just kinda mean. You admit he doesn't cockblock, rob you, etc, so the only situation is that you do something wrong or you go after the most appearance-obsessed women on the planet. Maybe you don't kino escalate so your "game" is just putting you in the friendzone. Maybe you are so worried about your buddy that it shows, and you guys inadvertently turn him into the only alpha of your group.

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bro u might be right, but thing is i really dont wrry bout him wen i go out sarging i really dont . but i guess i should tell him to back off? he dont pull the steal, but the girls gravitate towards him.. maybe i should be more agressive physically

Your buddy is allready coming off as quite Alpha being "taller and good looking" but like Draper said your worried about what he might do therefor giving him the more alpha vibe. If he has a boreing personality persay he probably dosnt talk much therefor makeing him "mysterious" in the words of "gambler". You could try little AMOG routines. Kinda like negging but on guys. Im quite short and not very built so i finde my self doing it all the time, works like a charm. But NEhoo take it with a grain of salt im new.

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Take him out to the bars and use him as bait to bring in groups of girls. Then pick your targets from the strays.

A good looking friend helps give you status in a bar and will make women more receptive to talking to you. You just have to realize he's going to steal a lot of positive female attention and learn to work around it. If you work it right, everyone gets laid.

this is not a problem, this is a strength, i have this same thing, my best friend used to model and girls flock to him like moths, he gets hit on pretty often, just use him to get the women interested, they will compete to try to win him, get them to come home with you using him as bait, just make sure your happy getting any of the girls that come back as he will most likely get his pick, you just take the left overs, either that or you could just be more confident/interesting then him and escalate fast on the girl you want before he gets to her, no matter what though he will have the passive advantage, you just need to create an active one