I've recently met this girl at a club wich i number closed and in the meanwhile became quite close with, from the start we had this really good connection, shared alot of interests and started texting more open & frequently.
The advice i'm looking for is nothing specific to my text-gaming, but more to say so about how girls actually work.
I've kinda learned a new pattern throughout the time i've spent with her texting wich is really frustrating sometimes. though i must admit, i too at moments have the same.
The problem i have is that it feels that every day, the whole mood starts off by minimum.
What i mean with that is, I can have a really good conversation one day, and the next she either doesn't text back, or starts with mediocre responses ending up into big conversations again.
I know she's not bored, i can tell by her answers, by short i still mean like a 20-30 letter text with responses to everything and questions, usually ending in 60-70.
A really frustrating example would be this:
End of the night:
(After alot of texts she hinted me to go out)
Her: No, there's nothing much to do around here, by the way, how are things turning with you smoking? You managed to quit? Be honest with me! Xx
Me: It did improve, but the annoying part is that i'm home quite alot, so my urge to smoke is quite big, it's such a hell, those goddamn smokes! I was just thinking, Do you wanna meet up at (Insert name)
Her: Yeah, that sounds like a good idea
, But i do have to discuss it with my brother cause one of us has to watch the puppies! i'll let u know tommorow when i can.
(I then texted back that it sounds good, that she should let me know and we said goodbye cause she had to get up early)
I texted her back today saying
Me: Heya! How are ya? Just woke up with the most annoying headache, i think i slept to much! Any clue when your free to go out?
After this, she didn't text me back, i've always used these kind of ''openers'' and they have always done their job, so i do not see reason of her texting me to go out, and then not texting back the day after when i ask about it.. Jeesh what a mission sometimes!
It's not that i'm needy, or just have to do this, i'm more annoyed by the fact that she didn't text me, then us not meeting up (yet?). One day they are really open, the other day they dont text back.
Though i think i failed by not making her feel comfy first and going straight to the point whereas she might had something else on her mind etc.
CHAT