Ok, this is my second semester in college. I've read the game, tons of PUA shit online, watched youtube videos, read advice on here.Hell I've been getting a TON of information for a good three years now and now I'm 18. It feels like reading all of it hasn't actually stepped up my game in any way. I kinda feel like it's made me think about it more and be more self conscious. Anyway, I need to do something proactive! I need to know what mindset I should have on woman. I think mind set is very important when I'm out looking for a mate.Which seems like every damn day all I get is trying to discretely look at eye candy or make eye contact with girls I think are cute. Man! Have I got the eye contact thing down! But, after that, it seems to be more the right situation. Which happens like... NEVER for me!

This is how it goes, I get eye contact (Occasionally really long eye contact but doesn't happen often) then we walk past each other. I'm terrified of being rejected. When it comes to conversation, it's not that I'm scared of it, I just go blank. I start getting self conscious, approaching girls alone for me is awkward. All I can really think is, it's probably pretty obvious that I'm talking to this girl because she's cute. But, then what?

Should I just run around campus going "HI!! I'M ALEX!!!" I don't really want to fuck in the same night (even though that be nice!) I just wanna play the field for the hell of it. I have a good amount of time I spend doing nothing at school watching cute girls walk by because they've got better things to do.

Maybe I'm to extremely self conscious and it pretty much takes a good amount of thinking to turn that self conscious off. So, when I approach girls I have to focus on 1. Not really caring because it's something that's automatic for me. And 2. Run some game that I'm particularly bad at.

But, I literally want something that helps me to be pro active on the field that's possibly creative so I don't feel like a dumb shit for doing it later on.

There is one major thing you need to understand in order to straighten out your mindset. Women Don't Matter! If you haven't gotten to the point where you can enjoy your life, college experience, and entertainment without women then how are you supposed to bring them into your reality to enjoy it with you. To get over your anxiety try saying "Hello" to a bunch of people (that includes everyone, men, women, old women, hell even animals). If you can't get comfortable just being friendly with people then you will never be comfortable enough to consciously run "the game" on a girl. Quit putting so much pressure on yourself and instead just enjoy the ride. One you are centered and confident in yourself then other will begin to notice just by the way you act and hold yourself.

About being self conscious, Who Cares? If you are confident in yourself and enjoy your reality then it should be the girl's honor and privilege to share that with you. Just smile, say hello, keep eye contact, and just feel yourself become more comfortable with who you are.

P.S. Do not run around campus screaming your name. Nothing screams more of desperation/DLV.

Thank you for the advice!
I've actually been formulating a thread for an outline that I have set up. I'll be sure to include this, thanks!

PS it's hard for me not to care when I am desperate, I'll admit it, but I can be patient enough to be successful.