Well guys, I'm new to the forum. I have read Neil Strauss's book and love the PUA world. I just need some advice on a girl i'm currently involved with. Were both 20 years old and we've been good friends since senior year of high school.

Well this year she came and visited me at school in florida, keep in mind she's from ny. Well she ended up cheating on her boyfriend with me in february and march.

Anyways i came back home for summer and we ended up talking and she ends up telling me how she wants to be with me but she cant break up with her boyfriend. So i gave her an ultimatum and she "broke up with him".

We ended up becoming F-buddy's a month after that for awhile but apparently she doesnt want to date right now. Fast forward a bit, My one friend ends up telling her "ex boyfriend" that she cheated and that we were having sex. This caused a huge storm of trouble. She told me she doesnt wanna have sex anymore which blows. Worst of all her ex boyfriend told my good buddy that they had been dating the whole time even though she claims they werent. So idk if she lied to me, im guessing she did.

So recently she has barely been talking to me and basically avoids hanging out with me. I think she is trying to get back with her ex or whatever. Basically im coming to you guys because i want her to chase after me and leave her ex in the dust. And hopefully get the whole sex thing back and maybe alot more. She's my high school crush so idk if maybe i made myself not a challenge to her. I need tips on how to become that challenge because i made the mistake of telling her i didnt want anyone else and i would do anything for her. Maybe a chump of a mistake on my part but i couldnt help it. Any tips would be great!