I met this girl at a friends house this weekend and there was lots of people and alcohol and i just drunk a lil bit more than usual. I noticed some iois (looking at me, calling me by nickname, some noticed some friends making her signs to her like pointing at me and stuff) while I was still sober but we were in a big table full of people and she was kinda far away from me. Some time passed and i finallt had a very profound talk with her about boys/relationships and stuff, in which i recall making her some good questions.
Then we were about to leave my friends house and go into the club, we were alone near the elevator and she tells me that her sexual fantasy is doing it on an elevator, i was pretty drunk by then you can guess since i didnt take a step at that time after such a strong IOI. We went into the club and first thing she does is askes me to dance with her for a while, again didn't make a next step, met by chance with an old friend of mine and after a while i didnt see this girl anymore.
I usually like playing hard to get with cute girls like this (she was about a 9 in my opinion), and it usually works, but i think that i exagerated that a bit prolly cause of alcohol. and she might feel that i rejected her.

I know this girl is a Friend's friend so I can get her facebook or msn if needed, would you guys ask for it? Should i chat with her via FB or just wait till next weekend when i might see her again. What would you guys do if you saw her next weekend?

TYVM in advance, feel free to ask me more questions

why exactly didnt you do anything? it sounds like you lacked balls and your just covering it up by saying that you were playing hard to get.... SURE buddy...

grow some fucking balls.

if you add her on msn or facebook now its just gonna look hugely AFC beacuse she will figure you had 0 balls to do anything in person (which is true) and now your going the AFC route.. BRAVO

I know i screwed up big time dude, and i know i will have it tougher now if she got hurt on her honor. On the other hand it sometimes happens (and it happened to me) that once i get rejected and i see that other as a big challenge i start to like him even more. This never happened before tbh and i feel really stupid with myself SPAM. Need some constructive criticism and a path to follow if i do see her again or if i do resort to add her on FB.

btw i decided not to drink again for a couple of weekends cause its really harming my game as you can see

You have too many excuses for messing up your game, playing hard to get and being too drunk, you sound like a younger me to be honest. I wouldn't add her on fb or msn or anything, forget about her for now and sarge other girls for time being until you see her again and do all the things you know you should have done, if you don't know what you should have done and need advice just ask me in a reply.

sky.

Exactly what MPuA said, it's too easy to make excuses as to why you didn't do something.

You're better off admitting to yourself the REAL reason why you didn't go for it. Let it sink in. Feel bad about it for a little while and wake up the next morning and say Fuck I'm never going to let that happen again.


You learn from your mistakes. If you blame it on alcohol or whatever else you're blaming it on, you'll repeat the same mistake.

You guys must be right and i should start analysing where i screwed up. Ill forget about her and focus on getting other girls. The thing is its almost guaranteed for me to see her next week at my friends house an i would love to hear sky's advice or other forum member on how i should proceed. I should start learning from my mistakes which i constantly make when im seducing a hb9, idont usually have issues with more average girls. I think i got intimidated by her being so aggresive in her iois. What do you think?

Don't think about it.

See how she acts when you see her next week and move from there.

Just wait it out, you dont wanna do anything else that'll further kill the attraction like a boring facebook convo.

Best believe she's at home analyzing what she may have done wrong which would cuz you to not want her.

She wants you, and you got another shot. Just play it right next week

TY guys, yeah i reckoned adding her on FB or contacting her by other means would be A- Acting like an AFC who's aware he fucked up a good chance B- I can make her further more confused. I'd rather keep her thinking im a challenge and gaming her whenever i see he again.