It’s been awhile. I got sick as sin because I was partying too much, too quickly. So I have renewed my license, and I’m going to pace myself. Possibly every other day, I will go out once I get my license back.

I’ve been watching Adams Lyons, and I truly appreciate his in-depth analysis of frame control. I will continue to learn and grow, and he has provided me with further answers that I needed.

So while I’ve been on hiatus from the game, mostly because of work, I’ve met this fantastic girl from work. She turned 18 a couple months ago. Before, I had the hardest time talking to her, and so I’ve pushed myself out of my comfort zone.

I tease her and act cocky funny, and constantly physically escalate. However, I can’t make myself do anything with her because I am worried of getting tied down in a relationship. She also knows that I am learning to pick up women. Which has required me to work my ass off to make sure she doesn’t realize I’m running game on her.

Her higher belief system is that she needs to basically marry the guy she’s with right now, because they had sex once. She’s quite religious, and the social influences in her life would judge her if they ever found out. I have moved past the attraction stage and am now building comfort, so I talk about the relationship with my Ex, which actually has many parallels with the relationship she has now.

The only thing I’m afraid of is that I may need to date her in order to get her into bed. I have attempted frame transformation via texts, and I want to break her up with her boyfriend. But I don’t want the relationship. What should I do?

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It's not lying, it's flirting.

If we all had our cakes and ate them the way we wanted to, there wouldn't be that proverb.

You CANNOT just expect her to break up with her guy, fall into bed with you and just be fine with your "I-dont-want-a-relationship" frame.

If you want to practice on women, there's no dearth on this planet for that. Leave her alone. She wants a relationship and thoughts of marital bliss, you can't provide her with neither. Accept that and move on.

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" You're born alone and you die alone and this world just drops a bunch of rules on top of you to make you forget those facts. But I never forget. I'm living like there's no tomorrow, because there isn't one. "