Hi guys ! This is really bothering me so I need some help. I have been gaming this girl for a while and all was going smooth till yesterday. We enjoy each others company and have a lot of fun and it was going in the right direction. However today when we went dancing, I was a little jealous when she (as i think) flirted with some guy in the dance lessons. I was taking it easy but I was a little cold after that incident. Now I think it was probably uncalled for and I want to make damage control asap. Is the best way for this is just to tell her I are sorry for being a jerk and must have not behaved like I did and ask if she can forgive me. OR is there any other way. Helpl PLS guys thanks a lot.

Fuck damage control.

Here's the thing, you can't game a girl "for a while." When you think you're gaming a girl for weeks, you really are just stuck on her (see ONE-ITIS). If she's flirtin with another dude, she clearly doesn't see the relationship between you two as more than friends. If I go out with a girl, though, even as a friend, and she bails on me to flirt with some dude, I'd freeze her out, too. Don't become the apologetic pussy who's gonna backtrack every time she looks at you the wrong way.

Honestly? Any time a guy says gaming for a while I assume you failed. You will probably take that the wrong way, but it is for the best. You probably avoided kino, sex, etc. for weeks trying to get her complete trust. Trust without physicality is one aspect of the friendzone. Just drop her and go find other women. There are so many girls on this planet that it is never worth so much time to go after just one.

Thanks ! and I do get ur point and thats what my inference was as well. Its just that she has a BF but shes not really happy with it all. I did escalate for the last week and was abt to close. So its kind of a difficult situation but we are fantastic together and hence I wanted to push more. From a practical point of view, I agree to what u say. Was just hoping there was still anyway.