So I'm in an unusual situation, my current fuck buddy and I see each other about 1-2 Times a week. We make plans to see each other more but it's either me or her flaking. The strange part of this is, she claims to love everything about me. Lovey dovey text messages all the time etc. And then she just won't answer my phone calls for 3-4 days. To which texting me after a week telling how bad she misses me and blah blah blah. Telling me I'm so much different then other guys. She text me two nights ago "baby I miss you soo much!" an then didn't even answer wen I called This has been the cycle for the month we've been talking.

Also she lives on my street so wen we usually hang out, it's me sneaking her into my house for sex late at night.

What's the best way to turn a Fuck buddy into a something more?( honestly I want to have sex with her more than twice a week and get her to invest a lot more time into us)

I had been thinking about disappearing on her for a week or two and have her running back, which would make her more open to some of my ideas but I don't know if it's a good idea.

does she have low self esteem? I had one of these it turned out she was a major slut fueled by daddy issues and low self esteem. Although she liked seeing me, whenever she was with another guy she would be completely unavailable.

edit: either way d being unavailable for a little while is a great idea it will make her feel a sense of loss/give her time to miss you and it's a dhv on your part. the BESt time to do it is right after she says I miss you so much.

Kinda sounds like her dude lol..she has a kid also. She told me the only other guy she talks to is her "sugar daddy" it's this old dude that just bought her a car.

I don't believe it tho.

Thing about her is even wen she's not with another guy.. Last night she texted me asking if she could come over, I replied yea. An she never responded

[quote="Fuze"][quote="pleasureseeker"]does she have low self esteem? I had one of these it turned out she was a major slut fueled by daddy issues and low self esteem. Although she liked seeing me, whenever she was with another guy she would be completely unavailable.

edit: either way d being unavailable for a little while is a great idea it will make her feel a sense of loss/give her time to miss you and it's a dhv on your part. the BESt time to do it is right after she says I miss you so much.[/quote]

Kinda sounds like her dude lol..she has a kid also. She told me the only other guy she talks to is her "sugar daddy" it's this old dude that just bought her a car.

I don't believe it tho.

Thing about her is even wen she's not with another guy.. Last night she texted me asking if she could come over, I replied yea. An she never responded [/quote][/quote]

old guy screams daddy issues... I remember the girl I was dating was really sweet and nice, would open my side of the car door, always thought about my needs... but would lie through her teeth about other guys. They weren't loved much as a children so they seek validation through other guys... here's a big red flag, did she give her out number w/o you asking?

edit: Also if she is very protective of her phone??? she's probably doing something if she doesn't want you to see, try to sneak a peak at it see if you get a chance. With a normal girl she'll have no problem leaving her phone when she leaves the room. It might sound needy to go through a girls phone, but when she comes back in the room I just say, "what? I was bored and you were taking too long"

you do not need to do anything, with time a fuck body will get ATTACHED, and want something more, women are not built to be fuck buddies...Do not dissapear on her just keep doing what you are doing, trust me, she will get attach, as long as you do not get all emotional like you are doing now, you are giving oneitis vibes just by posting this asking for advise, get rid of any oneitis vibe...

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We have been neighbors for 5 years an even went to high school together but just started talking last month wen I found her on facebok

She didn't give her number w/o me asking but she showed heavy IoI's.

Told me she always fantasied about being with me and what it would be like to have something with a neighbor

Thanks dude. I agree %10,000. my little inner voice was telling me the same thing

Fuze, you want me to be super honest with you, i would get rid of her if i were you, why????????CAUSE SHE IS YOUR NEIGHBOR, i do not shit, were i eat, that is just me... Nothing but problems and drama will come out of this, trust me...

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Once again I'm with you on that too skills.

This bitch is just so bad lol

And the sex is great

Tho I kno it's gonna cause problems. I already see it coming, I've been making oneitist moves like looking out my window to see if her cars there's so I kno if she's home. I'm stopping all that shit tho before it goes too far

hahahahaa! is hard your dick is taking over your head... It happens specially if she gives mad head, I have been there dude... But the best is get some other girls to substitute this one, but fast, cause she will get attach man, then you will be fucked, and if she gets psycho on you, worst..

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Word up ! I'm working on 2 other chicks now. And I'm about to start banging my ex once she gets back from vacation next week. I kinda wanna keep all these chicks in rotation but it's prolly better if I let the neighbor go lol

I disagree, if she's a whore and IS seeing other guys she won't want a commitment or even if does go for it, she has intentions of cheating. Just because girls like emotional connection DOESN'T mean they want relationships. They just want the lovey dovey stuff but some girls will get that emotional connection with multiple men. Making her miss you/giving her that sense of loss will make her appreciate you more and make you more valuable... also it will give her the idea that she can lose you. Implying over and over for a relationship will just push her away because everytime she rejects you she'll feel less attracted to you.

She just likes the forbiddenness of the whole sleeping with your neighbor, late night sneaking and that package. She's clearly not that much into you, going by her long spells of no contact. Also, she just might like the sex. And that is it.

Occam's Razor.

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Cut her loose. She is playing games that she gets off of using you basically. She loves how you reply to her and give this attention to her and she knows she has to fuck you every once awhile so you stick around to give her this attention she more wants than the sex.

A chick that's not into is delivering pussy to my front door twice a week without me having to lift a finger? I think that's pretty damn good lol