JUst wondering why i got this feeling .

i had an IOI from a girl and i fb close her and when i go back i found her FB . she is in relationship ... at first i planed to date her or maybe at least get to know her more . but after seeing her in relationship , i felt like wanted to give up on her .

I know all i one is a LTR and seeing that make me think that i stand no chance . sometime it make me question why everyone i wanted to date are not single ? i think this is where jealousy and unworthy take place ?

Any mindset that you guys apply to sort this thing out ?

"leave her better than found her "

Your mindset should simply be the understanding that many many girls jump from relationship to relationship. They are not happy where they are now, but they don't want to leave until they find something better. Continue to game her, and if she's secure where she is, no harm, no foul. If she decides you're better, then you're gold. Nice to see someone else still follows "Leave her better than you found her".

although I am no home-wrecker, i have to agree with TheFreshPrince. Girls always want a bf; it's handy, always sex available, someone to protect her, their female friends have bf too, etc.

well unless she brings it up, you shouldnt, have you ever thought that she put that there just so she can scared most of the losers away who wouldnt even try? seems like its working. Unless she tells you she has a b/f and intro you to him, she is single. Just continue on like normal until she brings it up. You should never bring it up.

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Ya i think i need to let it rolling agian . "Leave her better than found her " its a gold for me .

Thx for the reply bros , i really agree with the last line . i should never ever bring this up . i had this close friend and she is in relationship. we had known each other for almost 4 year but we didnt did anything sexual... until i learn about this community last year ... Last month something unexpected happen . she kiss close me b4 i fecth her home . i was in shock , and i never ever dream that this will happen because we had been in a platonic relationship for too long . I started to treat her differently ( more sexual manner) , things going well , almost f close her , until my old self creep in agian .... this stupid principle of mine pop out " its bad to steal someone gf " plus she is my close-best -friend.

Drunk in my stupid principle , i bring " that" up and told her that we had make a wrong turn . She suddenly turn back to her usual self agian (the one that in my platonic relationship) and promise me that she wont do this "bad" stuff agian .... there goes a good chance ...

After this incident , i and confuse about my self ... i am proud about myself because i still hold and stay in my principle , on the other edge i hate myself for letting this fine , nice lady walk pass like that .

This really outbalance me and its really affect my game and more , my inner self ... i dont know who i am any more ...

what do you all think bros ?

"Never ever bring "it" up "