| so, I just started the game, and am nowhere near knowledgeable on the subject, but I have a potentially time sensitive issue I was hoping to speak with some PUAs about
there was this girl at work, she is 22, I am 25, I have a really good job, whenever we see each other we flirt, it was a really good situation, or so i thought.
she recently left to go into her senior year, so i suggested we get together. we went out, things went really well, i took her back to my place and we started kissing, when all of a sudden she stops and says her life is complicated, she has a 35yo boyfriend (which shes never mentioned) who works at the movie theatre, shes not happy, whatever
i of course naturally try to go into a boyfriend defeating thing, told her I thought she was special and that she should take risks if she isnt happy, she agreed, but we just made out and slept in the same bed, nothing else, however there was a lot of physical contact
so i walked her out the following morning, wished her good luck at her second job, sent her a text the following day saying 'hey we're getting together with some friends', no response. i havent heard from her in a week.
any ideas? i'd like to keep seeing this girl. do i send her a message or do I just wait it out and hope she sends me something? i was thinking of sending her a message saying 'i respect she has a bf and still wanted to hang out', and then continue to try to work her against her boyfriend, and probably will do that if i dont hear back, but wanted some insight from some pros. so any advice?
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